Without going into too much detail - my ex-flatmate got thrown out of my house for coming onto my landladys daughter (she refused and is terrified of the guy). I think he's taken a dislike to me because i get on cool with said daughter. Now he's convinced we're sleeping together, my girlfriend is visiting this week (she only visits once a month) and he has already tried to tell her that he needs to talk to her about something "very important". He's never even met my gf before. She is suspicious. I'm scared. He seems to have it in for me! What the F**K do i do???????
2006-08-30 04:32:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Its a hard one mate as you are a little scared of him Maybe and so would seem i think he be a little mad, why not suck up to him for a week or so telling him its rubbish that you are interested as you are trying to get another girl in 7Eleven or wherever and then when its blown over ,
get your life back in order or get together with her!!!
2006-08-30 04:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it she already knows he has been thrown out. How does he know what she looks like if he has never met her? Is she going to believe a total stranger? Get her to meet up with the landlady and her daughter before he gets to her. They will back you up. Get a solicitor to write a letter warning him off. If you are short of funds, go to the Citizens Advice. If he persists after that, you could do him for malicious slander.
Or Plan B - Have you got some very large mean-looking mates, if not, everyone who has answered supporting you will meet up and get him!
Don't worry, the whole town will know he's a nutter anyway, and one day he really will pick on the wrong person and serves him right.
2006-08-30 09:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tough spot. I don't know your GF so have no idea if she will believe any of it or not. Just planting the seed may be enough to make the suspicions grow and that is not good at all. It may help if you tell her what you think he is going to tell her. Be sure that the GF meets the landladies daughter so she can feel better about her. Not an easy one to call. I wish I could help. I have been in situations similar and some turned out alright and some did not. I hope the lady understands and knows it is out of jealousy and not any fault of yours.
2006-08-30 05:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just the fact that the landlord kicked him out is proof enough that he's not all there, so you shouldn't have too much trouble convincing your girlfriend that he's just out to get you, and that you and the daughter are nothing but friends. If your girlfriend doesn't believe you, then I think there may not be too much to the relationship to begin with, because if she truly loves you or cares for you she should understand this situation. Oh yeah, if the guy does try any crap..............beat his a-s-s!!
2006-08-30 04:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Scotty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** him... he sounds like a dick.. tell your girl the situation, and go out and have a good time, and let the wretch find a new place to live...
anyway when will he have the chance to see her anyway???
failing that take him to oneside and tell him in no uncertain terms that if he upsets your girlfriend , you will take him down, one way or the other ....look him dead in the eye and tell him... go away or get fucked up .... somehow.
Mind you you could just ask him what his problem is... and talk to said daughter and if need be get her to talk to your gf.. (your not in any sort of relationship with her are you? the daughter)
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2006-08-30 04:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up your gf and tell her what your flatmate has done to be thrown out. Let her know also that because of this, he wants to take it out on you by destroying the relationship between both of you.
This is to give her a leeway before getting his call and would therefore not be surprised when she eventually gets to hear from him.
2006-08-30 05:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend what is going on so she has a "heads up" to anything that fool says. As long as you tell her first, she won't be suspicious and remember you can have the landlady and her daughter to back you up!!
2006-08-30 04:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by katlvr125 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to speak to your girlfiend and explain this situation *before* she hears any rumours or nasty whsipers. Then you need to confront this bloke - if he is agressive, do it in the form of a polite letter and keep a copy - if he persists and becomes more agressive go to the local police and explain the situation, and make sure you show them the copy letter. Don't loose your rag or give him any reason to get at you. Good luck!
2006-08-30 04:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Quiltel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the whole story before he gets to her. Don't tell her that you think he's going to talk to her though.Otherwise she will think you only told her because you think he's going to. Talk to her as if you have a problem and you need some advise. Tell her everything and your ex-flatrooms suspicions.Then reasure her that his suspicions are false. Thats about all you can do,,Good luck and I hope I helped.
2006-08-30 04:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill him! Cut his body into little pieces and mail them to every member of his family with ransom notes to a undisclosed mailbox. Use the money to artifically grow some balls just in case this situation happens again!
2006-08-30 04:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋