He gives me everything i want, but i dont feel the love there
can u advised me what to do
2006-08-30 03:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Choclate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Question his motives. Ask him does he really love you. And make him prove it .
2006-08-30 03:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm sorry to tell u this my dear....you don't love him anymore, u need to talk to him about ur feelings.
Sometimes it could be a misunderstanding between urselves but if this is not the case then i would advise a break from each other.
Do other things and see how you feel.
If this short break makes you feel like you really want to stop seeing him, then do it.
Be honest and don't mess the guy around. Don't accept anything from him until things r sorted too.
You are the one having doubts about the relationship and this shows u r not happy.
If the guy doesn't want to sort it out then i think its best to walk away anyway and its his loss.
2006-08-30 10:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its that YOU deep down dont love him? Whatever is the case.....its time to call it quits. We have bfs or date to feel such a connection that we cannot imagine life without them. You dont get the vibes you need from him and if you cannot feel that love/lust emanating from his being....then you need to move on.
Why do women feel they cannot trust their own instincts? Giving you everything you want, isnt enough for a lifetime commitment, having fun/sharing/huge intimacy/eye gazing/hand-holding, growing together/learning new things IS and surely isnt that what you truly need?
Many guys just stay around due to laziness/fear.....of finding someone new...so if you feel that he's just comfortzone material....YOU must make the move to let go. If you arent feeling passion, he probably isnt either...so do him a favour and do the deed. He may not like it.....or he may be thankful....just dont string it out.
2006-08-30 10:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your wrong. He is not giving you everything you want. You are giving him everything he wants. You still want someone to show you love in the way you want it. You need to sit down and share these feelings with him. Then decide if you need to move on and find that love or if you just don't understand him enough. Good luck.
2006-08-30 10:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyhting that you want is not love. It's materialistic. Ask him how he feels when you walk in the room. Ask him to sit down on the couch, and think about what he see's in 30 years. ( Anything he says should always include you. Now, that is love. Ask him to go to the grocery store, and get you something to eat. but don't tell him what to get you. See, if he brings home something that you actually like...That's love.
2006-08-30 10:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by luv him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what is the use of continuing his friendship.
When you feel so, your instict may be right.
Get rid of him, as there is no use in such type of friendship.
Why this thinking came to your mind?
2006-08-30 10:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him he is using u
2006-08-31 07:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋