he told me he was going to go to canada. he didnt call me the whole weekend. i thought he is having fun so dont let it bother you. but on monday i go to his house to see him and i knew he was home. i called his cell phone his house knocked on his window rang the door bell. and there was no answer. so i get in my car and then i hear somone in the garage. so i get out again and then i hear a door in the house shut. i know he was home and his parents were at work but even if they wernt they would answer the door. so then i finally get ahold of him and he tells me that he didnt go to canada. he suddenly had to get off the phone. he said he would call me back. he never did. he tells me he needs me and he loves me but i think he was just liying. some one help me understand.
2006-08-30 03:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so sorry that happened to you!!! something is going on!!! that don't sound right, some one else or something else has his attention at this time.
you deserve more this bull sh*t, Instead of him being a man and telling what is up he would rather avoid you plus when thay do it that way he is the relationship dies down and leave a door open so when they get tired of the other girl then they come back to you. Do you own thing, he is up to something!!!
I know it is hard but just disappear, he will notice it but you cannot answer any of his calls he will feel it.
2006-08-30 03:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by seeking 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth being with. He lied to you and he was avoiding you the whole time. Even when you went to his house, he knew you were there and he hid from you. Kinda makes you wonder what he was doing that whole week and with whom he was doing it with. You deserve better than that. If he lied about Canada then what else did he lie about. You don't want a relationship based on lies do you? Your worth more than that. Don't call him anymore, and when he calls you ( and he will ) tell him it's over because you deserve and honest faithful guy then hang up. Don't let him lie his way back.
2006-08-30 10:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a sit down but then again he probably wanted you to think that he was in canada so he could sneak with another girl my suggestion is to try to get him to tell the truth because if he didnt go to canada he should of told you
2006-08-30 10:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Caspa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you dump him. Put it this way reverse it - if you loved him and you were in the house that Monday would you have ignored him? Now if you didn't love him and in fact he annoyed you would you ignore him? Treat people as you would expext to be treated yourself. If they don't treat you right there's a great big world out there with plenty of other guys who will treat you the way you deserve. Never take crap from anyone and move on.
2006-08-30 10:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Alright! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't too much to understand. He's lying to you. There is very seldom a good reason for lying! Next time he tell you he needs you, tell him that he should have thought about that before he lied. Kick his butt to the curb! You deserve better.
Good luck Dear.
2006-08-30 10:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by nightflower24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because if he didn't go to Canada where was he that he couldn't call you exactly doing something he shouldn't. If he really love you he would have call you and people that love you don't lie.
2006-08-30 10:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes giving you the blow off without trying to hurt you. Men are stupid they dont know how to just say I don't want to be with you anymore. THey just say stuff like I am leaving the country. Just leave him alone and don't lower yourself to begging him to come back to you.
2006-08-30 10:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg thats awfull!!! the signs are right there sweet heart. hes cheating. and you need to sonfront him. if he won't talk then dump him. i know its hard but you can't get stepped on like that. show him who is boss. or if you know for a fact that hes cheating and you want revenge then cheat on him.
hope i helped
2006-08-30 10:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by kungfu Kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u wan to think b4 all this did anything happen to u and him that cause the strange act? o whether the problem lie with him?? hiding things from u
2006-08-30 10:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by iceiceice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no balls to tell you it is over between you and him, by lying to get, he make a monkey out of himself, dump the hot potato before you hear more **** from him
2006-08-30 10:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋