Plz help me, my best friend is a really really great person. She is really beautiful, cute and has a great personality. Ive known her for a very long time. The problem is that we cant get her to go for a guy. Most of the guys in our Res likes her and thay are really great guys. How can we get her to just go on a date with one of them?She's a really great person and she deserves to be happy. I know she wants someone to share special moments with. Plz help!
2006-08-30 03:07:31 · 13 answers · asked by Snoekie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not a lesbian
2006-08-30 03:15:22 · update #1
why dont you try ??????????????
2006-08-30 03:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know whats annoying? friends that keep pushing you onto guys you dont want.
you are ruining her self-esteem by telling her she isnt dating enough and that she HAS to find a guy. how about telling her how great she is just by being her? telling her how great she is even without a guy? you know what? its ok to NOT be in a relationship sometimes. let her find her OWN way on her OWN terms in her OWN time. and get off her back for gods sake. my friend tried to set me up with so many guys, even when i HAD a boyfriend. trust me, its a huge pain in the butt and i finally had to tell her to eff off because i didnt need her help.
back off.
2006-08-30 10:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She's happy being single. Maybe she's waiting for the right person. Just let her do her own thing without interfering. Not everyone needs a partner to "complete" them.
2006-08-30 10:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not talk someone into seeing a guy you think she will like. She has to just run into a guy and if they have a connection then they will get together. If you really think she will like someone find a way to get them to meet without them realizing someone is hooking them up. Relationships are weird like that.
2006-08-30 10:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by marygold2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's even interested in guys...if she is such a great girl and all these guys are into her how come she has never established any kind of relationship with them.
2006-08-30 10:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll go on a date when she is ready. let her chose the time. that way she'll enjoy it all the more b/c she could pick, not be forced to b/c her friends want her to. i understand that you want her to be happy, but if she broke down and went on a date and had an awful time, she'd never want to go on another one.
2006-08-30 10:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by lady of the piano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I saw all those exclamation points, I figured you had a real problem!
A friend does not try to "get" (manipulate?) her friend to do something she doesn't want to do.
As a friend, it is your job to support her choices, unless they will harm her. Waiting a while to get involved with dating has never been known to hurt anyone.
2006-08-30 10:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about the fact that she may not like any one of them? maybe u should just wait till SHE herself develops an interest in someone.. coz honestly, if she aint feelin it then nothing much is gonna happen anyway - she won't let it
2006-08-30 10:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live and let live....if she wanted your help and you are as good a friend as you say you are, she would ask for your help...perhaps she has other priorities....maybe she wants an education or something other than a BF....why don't you worry more about yourself...mind your own beeswax
2006-08-30 10:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be that she dosent likes all this n maybe she is not ready for it now...
even my friend shave the same problem with me..
they want me to go on a date, but i am not yet ready for it......
2006-08-30 10:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by KRiSty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes a lesbian.
2006-08-30 10:10:09 · answer #11 · answered by david r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋