This has been happening for a year now. I get up and make breakfast and spend extra time in the morning with her without rushing. I've checked out the teacher and there are no problems as far as she goes. I know the teacher loves her and treats her good. I don't know what else to try? Somebody please help
2006-08-30 03:05:46 · 13 answers · asked by spkn42004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bullies in the school? If nothing works, take her to a counsellor.
2006-08-30 03:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Utkarsh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, how old is the child? I'm going to guess that she's younger. Also, when does she start crying? at the house while you're getting ready? in the car? right before she gets to the door? If you make it fun in the morning or have her help you get her lunch or maybe have her pick her clothes, ifyou iron your clothes in the morning, then iron hers, that kind of stuff. Maybe race her to the car or to the classroom door. Then bend down and get to her level and tell her you love her and that you'll see her later. Then have her tell her teacher in the morning what you did befor you arrived to distract her when you leave if that seems to be the problem. But of course this is geared more towards younger children.
2006-08-30 10:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try spending the extra time with her at school instead of at home.
You could even have breakfast with her at school and then take her to class and let her show you her school work or something. Watch her (or encourage her if needed) interact with the other children. I hope this will help...
2006-08-30 10:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried going into class with her first thing in the morning and sitting there for awhile until she starts chatting with friends and feeling more comfortable with her surroundings. It just seems like she has anxiety each morning, then it goes away after getting into the daily school routine. Hope that helps.
2006-08-30 10:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A year is a long time to be doing it. My youngest daughter, who was very shy, did it, but just for a couple of months. If you try to her, may be she'll tell you her feelings. Or maybe taking to school her favorite toy could help/ Good luck.
2006-08-30 10:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by elgil 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe set up a play date for her and another classmate. If she starts playing and hanging out with someone she is in class with; she'll be excited to go to school and see them each day.
2006-08-30 10:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by congruent 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my mom used to run a daycare and the kids she watched would cry when their parents left... but wouldn't want to leave. why?
my mom made it fun to be there. she distracted them with toys or games... or i would chase em around and tickle em :)
but also build up going to school (ex. ok we're going to school now. its gonna be FUN) and race her to the car or play or sing in the car so that shes in a good mood when you get there. also, dont sneak out (im not saying that you do) tell them that youre leaving. just say bye, mommy's going to work now.... and EMPHASISE that you are coming back...
well hope i helped :)
2006-08-30 10:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by r0k3rg1rl13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not indulging her with extra attention in the morning, be all business in the morning. also, most kids act this way to let you know that you'll be missed---once you leave they're fine.
2006-08-30 10:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe the other kids are picking on her, if she cries every time
she goes to school their has to be a reason. maybe u should change schools.
2006-08-30 10:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by daniel b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would benefit greatly by seeing a good classical Homeopath who has experience w/children.
2006-08-30 10:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by neo-liberal ultra conservative 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋