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i was with this female for almost 2 yrs and i was her first everthing. she found out that i cheated on her and we broke up, it has been a year now since that happened, she has a baby for someone else and she is in the military, its just that i want her back, i still love her ... wat should i do?

2006-08-30 02:59:04 · 23 answers · asked by CEE 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

nothing to do.forget her.

2006-08-30 03:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Russel Mehedi 2 · 0 0

Funny how we always want what we can't have! So a little more detail needed, is she with the father of the baby?? If yes, then she has moved on and you need to accept that it is way over and go on with your life. Hopefully you have learned the value in being faithful....

Now, that said, I am a believer in the power of love and I am a romantic at heart. If she is single and you love her regardless of the fact that she has the baby and has commited a part of her life to the military, then I don't see the harm in looking her up and telling her that you made a mistake and that you love her and want to do what you can to work it out with her. She owes you nothing, and might send you packing. But if she gives you the chance, you had better clean yourself up and become loyal and true. Not only will you be affecting her life, but you will become a part of the childs life and it is not fair to be so selfish! I think people can change, so I am hoping that this works out for you, give it a shot (if she is single!) and if nothing else, like I said, you have learned not to cheat!! Good luck!

2006-08-30 03:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0 0

Its a bit late for wanting her back, considering you f*cked around on her and the fact that she has a baby with someone else. Have you tried apologizing and maybe emailing with her to re establish a relationship? Are you willing to father someone else's baby? Are you willing to never fool around on her again? Sometimes its just too late, but you will never know unless you stick your neck out there a little. If you get denied, remember what you did to her and in your next relationship, stay faithful.

2006-08-30 03:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by cici 5 · 0 0

Then why cheat one her?
You are just confusing yourself. She even has a baby for someone else. Are you trying to wreck someone's family or play the third party game? If you're doing that, please stop it.
If you're trying to get back to her, your chances are incredibly slim cos' you are the one who cheat. Not her.
You're wasting time habouring on something utterly impossible. Go find yourself another girlfriend.

2006-08-30 03:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0 0

Sorry to bring you this kind of news..but it was your fault!You are the one who cheated on the first place...!
Try to contact her and say that u are sorry...maybe this baby is even yours...u never know!If she has a husband..just apologize and move on..if she doesn't..make her a really nice gesture and marry her!
Good luck!!!

2006-08-30 03:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

She has obviously moved on with her life so i'd advise you to do the same. What is confusing you right now is your lust for her, not because you think that you are still in love with her.
Get over her buddy...move on!

2006-08-30 03:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0 0

Let bygones be bygones. Leave the past behind. It's just that you are still subconsciously feeling guilty for going out on her and causing her pain. Leave it alone, it's not love.

2006-08-30 03:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 2 · 0 0

you! you?????you want her back, why do you think she wants you back? you are lucky she did not put a gun in the dick by cheating her and broke her heart, what should you d0? go and change from a man to a women and let someone bangs you butt.

2006-08-30 03:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well.. if its meant to be, it will happen but you pretty much screwed this up for yourself... it seems to me she has moved on and started a new life with someone else who may be faithful to her... do you still have contact with her? and if so, does she feel the same about you? not enough info to go on...

2006-08-30 03:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by kristy 1 · 1 0

If you really love her, leave her alone. She's moved on with her life after the hurt you caused her. She deserves that much.

As for you, hopefully, lesson learned.

2006-08-30 03:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 0 0

You're crazy for wanting her back....she's got a kid for chrissake!

Get someone else and move on with your life!

2006-08-30 03:02:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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