My bf likes to hold my hand when we're out and i HATE it, i know most people see it as a term of endearment and thats nice and all but for me its irritating and clingy -but he really likes the whole cuddling crap and clingyness and i dont -so first is it normal for a dude to really want to hold hands and hug all the time on their own(without a motive) and how do i tell him to stop without being a ***** about it ?
2006-08-30 02:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by desireddisease15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha you sound like me. There are actually men who love to cuddle and hold hands and be all affectionate in public and actually just really want to shohw you they dont care what the wold thinks of your relationship, they only have eyes or soemthing for you. He probably really cares about you and wants to show you off in a way.... his male-egoed way of "this is my chick back the heck off everyone else" sort of way. I would take it as a good sign that he wants to be with you.
I would suggest deal with the hand holding, but if he starts to slobber down your neck in public, politely tell him thay you are uncomfortable and to back the drool off. Save it for the back seat of a car or the couch.
2006-08-30 03:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your not alone!! I also don't like all the clinyness ****!!! Just tell him that you dont Want to sound rude but you really don't like the clinyness!!! It makes you feel trapped!! Or say it feels like you cant breath!! It's called closterfoia!!!
Good luck
2006-08-30 03:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel. Say "I'm really not into holding hands, and all the cuddly stuff"
and if he loves you, he'll understand.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-30 03:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u ever thot u also do things dat he may not like but he still ignores em n accepts it,,,,
if he does dat wdout a motive..clearly indictes he loves u head over heals...
smetimes we hav 2 love & accept things dat our partner likes...smetimes u hav 2 compromise...
even he does dat wd u...but mayb wud not b tellin u cos he loves u...
2006-08-30 03:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you hate a boy holding your hand...your going to freekout when he wants to have sex...if holding his hand has the same effect as you speak of... just think for a moment when he want you to hold his hooha... you'll turn to girls for love.
2006-08-30 03:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Amy C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just learn to accept it.
2006-08-30 03:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u r a lucky girl, learn how to accept it and don't be silly.
2006-08-30 03:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you will soon learn to love it it will happen.
2006-08-30 03:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Black_ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to be like you.... i wouldn't wanna be touched in public, and then i met my guy and now it's like ..YAY!!!
2006-08-30 03:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by veeta675 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about it. and if he loves you he will respect it.
2006-08-30 03:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋