Calm down, rest often, drink plenty of milk and water. Try several relations techniques, especially yoga. Talk to other mothers. But dear one, please calm down and take steps to relieve your stress. And what sort of Dr. tells you not to be alarmed when he just told you the stats aren't good...don't let him/her get away with that! You ask questions...and take a notepad with you to write down questions and responses.
I wish you a speedy delivery and a heathy baby!
2006-08-30 03:03:48
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answered by rrrevils 6
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Don't stress about it, what will be will be. The danger zone is the first 3 months, but the reality is a miscarriage can happen anytime beginning or end. If you keep your self healthy, don't smoke or drink then there is no reason it won't go full term. If you stress about it that can be bad for a pregnancy and 9 months is a long time if you are feeling like that. Just enjoy this time, the hard work really begins when the little person is born!
Good luck. x
2006-08-30 03:20:19
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answered by koolkatt 4
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A woman can miscarry at any time. Signs of miscarriage are severe cramping, bright red bleeding, and/or clotting.
Slight cramping & light brown spotting is normal in pregnancy, this normally happens within the first 2 months of pregnancy, some women also have it in the 3rd month. It's just a way of your body cleaning out, and getting in gear for baby.
If a miscarriage happens prior to the 16th week of pregnancy, it is a sign that there is an abnormality in the pregnancy, and normally there is nothing a doctor can do to save it.
It is normal to fear miscarriage. It is normal to fear losing your child, at any age. From miscarriage, to a stillbirth, to death in later years. It's what mothers do - worry for their children.
Just do the things that are good for baby. Drink plenty of water, and stay hydrated. Eat healthy foods - stay away from soda, coffee, junk food - anything that's not nutrionally beneficial to baby. Don't eat lunchmeat, or raw meats. You should have received a "prenatal instructions" sheet from your doctor, telling you what foods to stay away from, and what medicines are safe to take during pregnancy.
Rest often, and don't do anything dangerous. Talk with your doctor about your usual activities - many sports are cut out in pregnancy, and walking is limited.
Even with a healthy lifestyle, nothing is ever certain. That's why it's called life. Just do what you can, while you can.
2006-08-30 03:23:13
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answered by ? 5
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Just think of it this way: There is nothing you can to do prevent miscarriage except not to smoke, drink, do drugs, or ingest anything harmful (No aspirin either). Stress will NOT cause miscarriage and morning sickness does not cause miscarriage. If a miscarriage is going to happen, then there is nothing really you can do to prevent it once it has started. Just try to keep your mind off of it as much as you. Think positive thoughts and keep yourself busy and hopefully the 14 week mark will be here before you know it. After that it is pretty much smooth sailing. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 03:24:39
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answered by Sstar979 1
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Most miscarriages happen before the end of the first trimester, but statistically, most happen before a woman even knows she is pregnant. If you are looking for support, check out message boards by month due on http://parenting.ivillage.com/messageboards - you'll find other women dealing with the same thing you are. Good luck!
2006-08-30 02:59:53
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answered by Naomi 3
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I had a miscarriage, and then somewhat one no longer lengthy after, then yet another miscarriage. thinking i change into informed i'd under no circumstances get pregnant, I seen that one a blessing. 2 years later i pass pregnant back, and we had a great time and theory we would under no circumstances get pregnant back. Then #3 change into born 18 months after #2...WOW! Then #4 change into 15 months after #3, then 18 months later #5....we all started wondering it change into some variety of cosmic shaggy dog tale! #6 change into born 2 years after #5, and variety seven (we call her seven of seven) change into born 2 years after #6. My SIL also confronted various miscarriages, 4 or 5 i imagine, she stopped telling us after a lengthy time period. She were given pregnant about ten years in the past although, and then popped out 5 in ten years. So we are both quite extremely joyful with our little reward. i'm sorry on your loss, i do not understand what else to allow you to recognize except to maintain your hopes up. I under no circumstances theory i'd be so blessed, and that i undergo in recommendations at the moment of dread, each and each month of praying. We were complete nuts for the period of our pregnancies, especially in view that all of our miscarriages were after 12 weeks...a concepts into the trimester of 'safe practices'.
2016-10-15 22:10:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't stress that's the worse thing you can do. I lost a baby at 6 weeks, 7 weeks, and 20 weeks. If it's going to happen there is nothing you can do. My issue of loosing my babies at 6 & 7 weeks was low progesterone, the one at 20 weeks was her umbilical cord, now I'm 11 weeks pregnant and maybe a little worried but I know stressing will only harm my baby
Good Luck and God bless
2006-08-30 03:26:08
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answered by momie_2bee 5
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Hun, keep your head up. In Jan. I went through the same thing yet mine was a little different I had a doctor that wanted to terminate my pregnancy because HE had a bad feeling because he could not find anything. He only gave me 30 min. to decide. I went to a different doctor because that is NOT something I wanted to do. I had it in my head WHAT IF. You should be the same way DON'T think of the worse let it be in god's hands if it is his will then he WILL let everything be OK and IF not then will the baby will be one of his chosen babies. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! BEST OF LUCK
2006-08-30 04:14:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I advise u to have faith in God who take care of our lives. You are lucky to conceive and do not take any tensions but always think of caring about urself more as u r going to experience the most wonderful feelings for full 9 months
Always chant the name of God in the morning and at night. He who is the creator of this universe will protect ur child also. So have no qualms about it and may the God Almighty protect u and the child
2006-08-30 03:16:52
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answered by rajoo r 1
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The more you stress yourself out, the more likely you are to miscarry. A miscarriage can happen at any point during pregnancy.
2006-08-30 02:58:43
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answered by sovereign_carrie 5
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