My bf says he would like to make a video of us. He wants to film me doing something to him. He is going away in the military for a long while and says he would like this to remember me by and he won't show it to anyone else. I love him but I feel self-conscious. Any advice?
2006-08-30 02:50:39 · 35 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello?! Do Pam Anderson and Paris Hilton ring a bell?!
If you are too self conscious and unsure, that's a definite sign that you shouldn't do it. Even if you are, I still wouldn't do it. That could end up all over the net, all over the world. Think about it. Would you want all your male relatives seeing you on their computer doing that? I'd be quite embarrassed if that happened.
I'm sure you can give him something else to remember you by. Maybe even a pair of your panties or something, anything is better than making a video! And if that's what he needs to remember you by, then he's the wrong guy for you.
2006-08-30 02:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel wrong doing this and he is pressuring you by using the "I'm off to war" line, he isn't that great a guy. If you make this video, you will probably be spread all over the home made porn sites before too long. He will not keep it to himself, no matter what he says. Guys just can't keep things like that secret. You can email him. If he is taking a laptop, make sure you both have a web cam and you can still keep in touch that way. If he truly loves you, just talking to you or hearing from you should be enough. A Sex video to remember you by? Those sound like parting words to me.
2006-08-30 02:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask others opinion on this, then you must not really trust him in the long run, there are other ways for him to remember you by, You can send him video tapes & photos of you without being in an akward position for a letdown later in life.
2006-08-30 03:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by david77232000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm and god only knows how many men without women and him having a video - hell yeah he's gonna show em all what a stud he is - particularly as its YOU doing something to HIM> if it was ye actually both having sex, then maybe a different story. Its up to you - if you dont mind other guys seeing it - go for it! I just wouldnt be making too much direct facial contact with the video camera!!! Then again, maybe your bf is the exception to the rule and you can trust him - I dont know - just my opinion
2006-08-30 02:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel self-conscious don't do it & if he knows you feel that way then he shouldn't be asking - remember, a video is permanent - as an alternative you could surprise him and get some tasteful pictures taken of you in hot lingerie that you would be comfortable with, but yet not expose too much of yourself potentially for unwanted eyes to see.
2006-08-30 02:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,as long as you stay in love and together,it's a nice idea but...
first-you don't know what he will do with video when you break up-if youbreak up
second-what if the other soldiers find it(you know how things are in military..)
my opinion?
surprise him!make him a video of what he wants and let him have it until his leaving.
or a nasty photo on his cellphone is nice idea and less dangerous..
and all this of course if you like his idea!don't do it if you don't feel like doing it.
it's up to you...
2006-08-30 03:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by xadakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going away and that's the only thing he can think of to remember you by? Ah, true love. Well, if he's going to pleasure himself, which is the only reason I can think of for the video other then showing it to everyone, then at least he's doing it to you.
2006-08-30 02:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable doing it go ahead. You shouldn't feel self-conscious of yourself, he wants to remember you while he's away. I would do it, but that's just me. Think about it.
2006-08-30 02:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by pinkberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking the question here, I assume you sort of like the idea. I'd say go for it, but realize that a few other guys may enjoy your video too.
2006-08-30 03:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋