how do you got over a broken heart when women kills you kids.?

Question

I was dating A ladie In 2001 Broke up in 2002, found out that she was going have a our Baby, then had it remove, She said that she did not want the baby to look like me. I am handicap. in 2004 same thing happen. Not the same ladie. and again this year. Again not the same ladies.. I know that i am a Nice person. But to tell a person who just has one hand missing that they don't to have a child. why the heck are you going out with me then? How can i go dating when i have this hanging over my head, I have very littie trust in dating women now.. i can be a friend but not more then that. i am 41 years old. i am not getting any younger..

Answer 1

Find the right woman. She won't treat you the way these other women have treated you. And you should consider using protection till you get married so you can have kids with your wife, not your lovers.

Answer 2

In the first place, these women should have known there was a chance of getting pregnant......and both of you should have had a conversation about birth control if you/she didn't want to have kids......Unprotected sex=babies and or disease.....pretty simple.
Obviously you keep selecting women that are somewhat alike....try going outside your normal type of dating material. Go somewhere you wouldn't usually go to find someone to date. Join a club or group....find singles meetings....join a different church....there are many ways to reach out to different people. Good Luck

Answer 3

You will find her some day a women who truly loves you for who you are. You re better off without the other women. A missing hand is not a reason to not a have a child, i truly hope you find her and good luck to you.

Answer 4

My question to you would be why do you keep getting women pregnant? Ever heard of condoms?

Answer 5

sucks but cant blame em really can you? you'd do the same thing if u were in their shoes.