i really want to know
2006-08-30 02:49:01 · 19 answers · asked by Rowie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If God is supposed to be perfect how could She have made anything or anyone that wasn't.
All this talk about sin sounds like a bunch of nonsense to me. The first thing that someone should be considering is whether the idea of sin is actually real.
Think about it. The idea of sin assumes certain things about God that seem highly unlikely to me.
First it assumes a God who is too incompetent to organize a simple educational field excursion and figure out a way to get all of the students home safely.
How likely is this that God would not be smart enough to come up with a plan for our salvation that is going to work?
It also assumes that God must have created us imperfect if we are sinners.
One might assume that God would be able to create someone perfect each and every time if he chose to. Assuming God is capable of this, then it follows logically that we must be perfect creations if we are actually creations of this perfect God.
Unless of course you are saying that God chose to create us imperfect.
If God created us imperfect then anything that may go wrong is Gods fault, not ours. This seems a bit illogical at best so I think that we need to assume that What God creates would have to be perfect.
If this is the case and Gods creations are perfect, then nothing that we can do could change what God created perfect and make it imperfect unless we think that we are more powerful than God is.
How likely is it that we the creation could be more powerful than the creator. I personally find this idea somewhat amusing, and a bit absurd.
Religion tells us that God is perfect. If this is true then it could hardly be logically for Gods creations to be considered to be anything less than perfect.
If this is the case then Nothing that we can ever do could possibly change this perfection that God willed, unless we were so powerful that our choices could override and change the will of God.
How likely is that????
Think about it.
The idea of sin is simple nonsense; a lie made up about God by religion.
Love and blessings
don
2006-09-02 00:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in a GOD, then yes you are. My true feeling is that if you feel this way then get divorced!! Three years yes is a long time, but you still have not finalized your last relationship, and you should never start a new relationship until you have finished old ones. My only exception would be if the other person gives there OK while they too are waiting for the "final paperwork"(in jail ect.). Are their kids with this problem, and what kind of example do you wish to show them. It is OK to get married, move on to someone else while still married, sorry I do not buy this. Without knowing the real details of what is going on it is really to be sure 100%, but I do know for the good of all the first relationship should be over, and you would also show this new guy that later you would do something different if this should ever happen to you again. Respect yourself and end one, give some time then see if this was just someone better who just only told you lots of things just to make you feel good (and get you "in to bed"). There are many men out there who like to here someone is unhappy, and then they move in after hearing what they want, and before you know it they are not happy with them either. The other question is the other person know of you still being married? What kind of guy if he wasn't looking just for a little action would not want the woman he loves free and clear. Please in short pick up one mess before you start an other.
2006-08-30 10:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by wmkinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love God first, and all other loves are secondary... then no love is sin... however in this particular instance... there are a couple of other things to consider...
If you have separated from your husband... what is stopping you from actually getting a divorce??? What was the reason for the separation??? Is it something that can actually be worked through???
My concern for you is that there are issues unresolved in your marriage that you could potentially take into a new relationship. Old hurts don't die if they go untreated... they fester... waiting for the right moment to spring up... and cause problems that could have been solved before they started.
Whether or not it's a sin to love isn't the question... what you should be asking yourself is are you prepared to love... going into a relationship with unresolved issues could lead to more sins than anyone might convince you that falling in love might be.
Take care.
2006-08-30 10:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rev T L Clark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a sin to love someone. Love can be a feeling.... but love is also a choice. That is why there are marriage vows... it does not say..."I will love you until this happy feeling goes away" it is... "I will love you till death do we part, in sickness and in health." Unless you have divorced your husband you should not choose to love someone and pursue this relationship... that would be adultery which is definitely sin. As for the people who tell you to embrace this possibly adulterous relationship...that is crap... though life is fleeting we shouldn't live it as playboys, druggies, rebels, drunkards...etc. just because it feels good. What FEELS good isn't always good for you in the long run.
2006-08-30 10:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by rach11lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state that you are divorce from your husband, being seperated & divorce is 2 different situation. If you are still married, I would have to answer you, Yes, it is sin, if you are divorced, first you need to see what happen to bring that divorce, Because there is scriptures that allows a divorce person to remarry. If your husband left you for someone else or abused you, then you are free to marry again.
2006-08-30 09:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by birdsflies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go separate way, means both of you have not divorce.Here its show that you are no longer in love with your husband.If you create the atmosphere, its a sin.Dont make thing more hay wire.Do one thing at a time.Ask your husband abt the relationship.....Is he still love and need you.
2006-08-30 10:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still married? It's no sin to love someone, but if you are still married....well, you are still married. Let God be your guide. Ask Him and get into the Word. Finding someone after a divorce can be wonderful. God Bless.
2006-08-30 09:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me why would it be sin to love someone? Forbidden love in this day an age isn't applicable no more.
2006-08-30 09:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Yoruba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between loving someone and haveing sex with them.
No, it is not a sin to love someone.
2006-08-30 09:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to divorce you husband before getting into another relationship if you are separted since it is adultery to be with another while married.
2006-08-30 09:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by lady_4jc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋