My female cat Tammy has been sleeping with me for years. Since I've suffered a recent romantic breakup, I've noticed that she is more attentive and has started to be seductive. I'm wondering if she wants more than a platonic relationship with me? I hesitate to make the first move, since I can't stand more rejection. Do you think she is interested in me in this way?
2006-08-30 02:31:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
Please don't pay any attention to any of the Fey Believers you may encounter on here. These are people who are obviously suffering from repressed anti-feline feelings. Maybe this new relationship of yours will be just what they need for enlightenment and understanding. And you talk about making a first move when you and Tammy have been sharing a bed for years? Boy, men can be dense at times. Tammy obviously loves you and is ready to take the relationship to the next level. You should respect the fact that she waited until you were free before making her move. I say yes, go for it. On your way home tonight stop and buy her a smoked salmon and some fresh, chilled milk for dinner. Hey, if you're feeling Frisky, pick up a bouquet of catnip too! By setting the proper mood and doing a lot of "petting" before hand, I think that the both of you will be in for a night to remember!
2006-08-30 02:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 04:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be, maybe she's seen you at your worst and decided you're worth it. question is, are you up for the commitment? sure cats only live 10-15 years on the average, but can you give her the attention she needs? you know, if you have roaming eyes and she senses another women, there will be jealous and repercussions.
i say, weigh all the ins and out of the situation, then you two work it out. good luck.
btw, cats always get their way.
2006-08-30 02:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by midnightrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tammy knows that you are feeling way way low down and she is trying to comfort you and tell you that no matter what - she's there for you: 'why yo need nother human fo - silly? looka me!' But its great that you still have your sense of humor despite the break-up.
Seriously, I once had a male neutered cat that thought of himself as my mate.. he used to attack any man that came calling... He (the cat) also slept in my bed.
2006-08-30 03:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Phoebhart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cat is most likely happy that she's the centre of attention now. Maybe she never liked your girlfriend in the first place.
Shake that funny thought out of your head, it's only normal cat behavior
2006-08-30 02:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really funny, man! Take it slow and let the cat make the first move. You don't want to be rejected when she has claws and teeth like she does!
2006-08-30 02:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people on here don't have the sense of humor for a question like this. I thought it was funny though.
2006-08-30 02:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pu$$y is pu$$y. But if she rejects you, it will most likely be with her claws. It might be safer for you to get an inflatable love cat.
2006-08-30 03:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused about how to stier people up Tonge in cheek perhaps or is it finger in the b....
Whatever turns you on!
Be good
2006-08-30 02:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by belzewoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ginger cat used to hump my dressing gown. then hop into bed and cuddle me. now thats love.
2006-08-30 03:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋