He want's to break up with her but doesn't know how... My question: What am i supposed to do?
2006-08-30 02:31:36 · 20 answers · asked by secret_goddess87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him cause hes just using you for sex and car payments. plus he gonna cheat on you like hes doing now.
2006-08-30 02:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a load of bs. If he wanted to break up with her, he would. Oh because she is gone or whatever, that's going to make it harder on her to deal with the breakup? C'mon, it would probably be easier that way because then she doesnt have to come home and find out that the douchebag is cheating on her. You found yourself a real catch dating someone who is so willing to cheat once their girlfriends are gone for a little while. The idiot can't have his cake and eat it too but then again, I guess so long as he has you in his life and are gullable enough to believe his bs then he can. Give him an ultimatum or move on because its not that hard to say goodbye to someone and if he doesn't then your just allowing him to disrespect you and this girl by stringing you both along.
2006-08-30 03:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is obvious that he doesn't love her anymore, cause he's cheating with you. How do you not know how to break up with someone, he is making excuses and that means that he doesn't care much for you either. You should let him close that door before he opens another for you. He will probably do the same thing to you. Women like you are why some men are dogs. There are single men out here. But you would rather catch one simply going thru something with his girl and will use you until things get better with her, die over or mess with the both of you, until she gets tired of his lies and BS. Then you wonder why things don't work out for you either.
2006-08-30 02:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by soul child 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of what would it feel like if you were in her shoes.. It would hurt as hell knowing that your bf is seeing someone else.. It is easy to put obstacles of your mind but you shouldn't build your life walking over others people feelings.. It's not like thunder is going to hit you from the sky for revenge, things like that don't happen, it just feeling that you are doing a right thing and that you can look at yourself in the mirror in the morning.. If he is not happy with her he could broke up with her million times before.. Don't get caught in trap, there is no way out, trust me..
2006-08-30 02:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice in a situation like that is to not interfere. Stand by him and tell him not to let the situation make him miserable.
Breakups are easy. They really are. It just takes a few simple words. "I would like to break up." "I don't want us to be together anymore." "I have found someone else. Our relationship is over." Any of those work great. As long as he avoids any sentences starting with "i think ..." it'll be fine. Breakups aren't a discussion. It is a statement of feeling.
I wish you both the best of luck :)
2006-08-30 02:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 17:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything when the tim eis right it will happen. my friend dated a guy who had a girlfriend abroad .she had been gone for 6 yrs .he finally broke it off and married my friend. she has never been happier.dont push but be sure for a fact he really wants to break up with her
2006-08-30 02:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by hieandbye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be the other woman? I will not deny that I have not been the other woman. But I would never do it again. You need to be understand that you put yourself in this position. You cannot expect him to make a decision because that puts him in control. Why cant you make the decision? And what are you waiting for? He could have broken up with her by now but he hasnt. That leads me to believe that he doent want to leave her. But keep this in thought.... A leopard does not change its spots.
2006-08-30 02:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stop dating guys that have girlfriends. i HATE girls like you. she is away at classes and you're f'ing her boyfriend. how would you feel if it were reversed?
and trust me, when she gets home and he sees her, he might be singing a different tune. he probably doesnt miss her now because you are filling in, but when she shows up he might realize that he does love her and doesnt want to be with you.
find a guy whos single. why do girls feel the need to walk all over other peoples relationships. get your own man!
he's probably just telling you he doesnt "know how" to break up with her when in reality he just clearly doesnt want to break up with her. he wants to have his cake and eat it to. getout and get a life
2006-08-30 02:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do ,dont fall for this guy right now ,tell him he will have to break up with her before ye go any further ,because you never know you might get hurt in the long run.
2006-08-30 02:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't know how to break up with her? Your new guy is a loser and a cheat. He will do the same thing to you. Find someone that will put you first.
2006-08-30 02:42:41 · answer #11 · answered by wyleyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋