me and my ex have been apart for 2 and a half months... he broke it of cause there was no longer a spark... so i moved on and we stayed friends... but now we are talking all the time... we msg each other when we are bored... just saying im bored and we are always talking... and i like him again... ppl keep asking us if we are back together cause we are always talking and flirting and mucking round... ppl say he likes me and i see sum signs but im not sure what to do... any ideas?
2006-08-30 02:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really wouldnt do it... u both r just bored.. and him more than u.. do u wanna be dumped everytime he gets bored?? r u that sad that u'r only good to be his gf when he cant find anyone else?
if u do really want him then don't take him back until he proves that he wants u, not just uses u as a way to pass time!
2006-08-30 02:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it for a moment, first why did yall break up? you said because their was no longer a spark right? well I think sometimes time away from each other is a good thing, because you can see how much you truly love each other, as long as he hasnt cheated on you or gone behind your back when you were dating I say go for it. Maybe this time away just has show both of you how much you need each other in each others life.
Look if the spark is gone, DONT BREAK UP, do something about it. GO on hot dates, be romantic with each other, dinner, movies, take a weekend with each other somewhere do what you have to do, to get that spark back.
2006-08-30 09:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you...or he wouldnt have gone out with you in the first place. As he says...he's bored......probably horny too and if he hasnt met anyone else yet and you havent either...maybe he's looking for ex-sex? Keeping that poker in the fire for emergencies?
I wouldnt place much creed in him wanting to get back together again though......he's not bored ENOUGH to ask you back has he? You too are just holding on to that old blankie...comfortzone....so quit talking to him so much and start making new male friends....allow yourself to find a new sparky person.
2006-08-30 10:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I generally don't believe in the idea of getting back with exes. There was a reason for the breakup, and in my experience, when people get back together, it's not because the reason is not there anymore, but they forgot what it was or think it may just not crop up this time.
The reason you are feeling attracted to him again and he to you is because you haven't gotten used to the idea that you aren't together anymore and that you should be looking for other people. There are millions of guys out there, many of them much better suited for you than your ex, but they won't come to you unless you close the msg window and get out of the house to meet them.
Good luck in your search :)
2006-08-30 09:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it has happened to me once, i stopped liking ma ex cos the sparks where no longer there but when i let her go i became bored; first of all felt she was cheatin on me but Later i found out when she is bored she calls me and i always wait for her calls things got back together and now we are married cos she never bored me again and i trust her cos she did not go for another person; but dont be to open for him cos he might take advantage and run finally ( he is not me) but am sure he likes u and cant do without u; Gud Luck Gal
2006-08-30 09:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be on the road to getting back together. But since he broke it off, you have to wait until he realizes that he wants you back, and he made a mistake to break up with you. Do not ask him back, because then it will be temporary. Let him do the asking. If it is meant to be, he will ask. (and I think he will. From my personal experiences.)
2006-08-30 09:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there myself, and in my experience everything goes well as long as ur freinds and flirting, but as soon as u hook back up things go south again, he got bored of you once hell get bored of you again. people may have thought u were a cute couple but thats no reason to put urself through anymore aggaravation you were right to move on, and he should to.
2006-08-30 09:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what to do?
I thought you moved on?!
If he hasn't said anything to you about rekindling the relationship, then maybe he just views you as a very good friend.
To know for sure, you can ask him out to dinner and get a little personal with him!
2006-08-30 09:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also faced the same situation. see my question n answers to get more ideas to handle the situation
2006-08-30 09:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it......whats to say if after a few months he dosent like u again...dont put yourself through it!!!
2006-08-30 09:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋