my son is four years old ..his father dropped him off a few weeks ago with a head of blueberrie blue hair!!! i wanted to smack his father
what would you do?
2006-08-30 02:06:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
it is not my sons fathers call to dye his hair blue! he may live with him but the boy came out of me!! :P
i think he could of asked me about it i would of said HELL NO but he still should of said something to me
2006-08-30 03:27:01 · update #1
his father is 33
2006-08-30 03:28:32 · update #2
omg people... my 4 year old SON has the blue hair LMAO
WOowW
2006-08-30 03:40:37 · update #3
A good hairdresser can fix it. He may have done it just to aggravate you. If that's the case, I wouldn't give him the satisfaction. It may be one of those dyes that washes out in a few shampoos. A little blue hair dye is harmless compared to things he could have done. Not saying what he did was right, I'd be pretty mad too.
2006-08-30 02:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pauleen M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...is the kid's hair blue or the father's?
If it is the kid's...the father should have asked you first but I don't see it as a huge deal. It will fade. It is just hair.
If it is the father's hair then who cares. What is wrong with blue hair. And to do the idiot who made the comment that she'd be concerned if he was in his 30s--what the hell does that mean? Those comments always irritate me. I have black hair with purple and blue stripes. I'm 31 and expecting my third baby. I also have three tattoos and at one point had 17 piercings. I acquired most of these in my mid 20s. Is there like a magic switch that goes off at 30 that means I have to suddenly wear sweater sets and floral skirts? I suddenly have to change my interests because I'm 30? I've always liked body art, colored hair, cargo pants and converse all stars. I'll continue to be this way because that is me--no matter what my age is.
2006-08-30 09:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Amelia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a classic reason why you have to make your questions more clear. I finally see now that you were talkinga bout your ex dying your 4 yr old son's hair blue. At first it looked like you were upset at the father for dying his own hair blue. If he is the custodial parent(ie, the boy lives with him most) then I guess technically he can do whatever but it would be only right of him to ask you first. YOu could go back to court & ask them to make an addendum to your agreement that says that you have to have both parents written permission to do anythign drastic to the child.(wild hair colors, cuts, piercings, etc) I personally wouldn't have a big problem with it, it's only hair & will grow out & fade. If it's that big of a deal to you then just take him & have it dyed back to it's original color.
2006-08-30 11:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by mamabens 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dying a child's hair can be dangerous...if the two of you aren't together I would suggest consulting a lawyer. At 33 this "father" should know better and should have used some common sense. He obviously isn't using any and I would be hesitant about leaving my child with a person like this.
2006-09-03 03:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh. And? Big deal. Be glad he didn't dye the boy's hair. The color is the HARDEST to set in hair. It bleeds all over everything (sheets, clothing) and fades rather quickly. You failed to mention the ages of you two (the parents) or the general area where you live. Believe it or not, this makes a difference.
2006-08-30 09:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can do what he wants.
It's none of your business now!
As long as he continues to be a good father,whats the problem.
I have a 65 year old mother who dyes her hair blue, as do all her friends. Does this mean I should slap her.
You have the problem, not him.
He sounds like he's having fun now he's free.
2006-08-30 09:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who cares? If he doesn't mind getting laughed at and made fun of, then let him keep the blue hair. But personally speaking, I'd have smacked him a good one first before attempting to ignore the new hair color.
2006-08-30 09:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he in a band or something? How old is He? past 30 I would be thinking he needs help but if he's still in his 20's it's really not a big deal. He's probably just trying to find his identity in different things.
2006-08-30 09:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
It's freedom of expression, and since he is obviously no longer in your life, you have no say.
Since you do, however, have influence in your son's life, you just have to tell him that you don't appreciate Blue hair, and how difficult it would be to get an employer/teacher/autoritive figure to take you seriously if you have blue hair.
To make yourself feel better, you can think to yourself, "Thank God that I don't have to be seen in public with Mr. Blue Hair"
K well have a good day !
2006-08-30 09:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by gobblygoo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dye the kids hair green and see what he thinks.
2006-08-30 09:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by LoneStar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋