He is friends with my ex. I saw him out one night and we hit it off well with conversation.I was still bitter about catching my ex cheating on me.He listened and understood.He drove me home that night and I invited him to stay and asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did and I asked him to put his arm around me, he did till I slept.He was a complete gentelman and did not try anything.I saw him once since and he came to me and said "your killing me",my ex was there so we had to keep it quiet.It has been 6 months since that night and I still think about him.Could that night have affected him like it did me?I dont have his number so I cant call him.I just wonder if he still thinks of me even though its been so long.
2006-08-30 01:31:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be surprised, you should ask him next time you see him.
2006-08-30 01:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have his number??? Girl, what are you waiting for? It's been long enough that you've been away from your ex, he ought not feel awkward about that anymore - I say GO FOR HIM!!!
OMG - that comment "you're killing me" - that alone would have melted my bones right then & there. Get his number - I'm quite sure you are a resourceful gal & can do so - call him & set up a date. Talk to him - tell him exactly what you told us! Find out if it affected him & if he's still thinkin of you - which I'm quite sure he is! Don't let him slip on by - go fishin! Have fun & good luck!!!
2006-08-30 01:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might very well have been affected by it, but the thing is, he doesn't want to diss his buddy, so maybe after some time passes, and he runs into you again, it'll be cool with your ex and you two can hit it off. Be patient.
2006-08-30 01:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, he's not gay.
Yes, he may still have feelings for you. NEXT time definitely see if you cannot explore the feelings you have for him . . . you still have your ex's number, I assume, have one of your friends call you ex to get his friend's number. Have your friend tell your ex that you met his friend out, can't stop thinking about him and need his number or e-mail address. Anything to get a hold of him again.
2006-08-30 01:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess he does think of you the same way - I know I would.. Run a name search or get his number from your ex. Just go for it screw what the world thinks
2006-08-30 01:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Buyakasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your played with his emotions alittle. even though you all didn't have sex. do you think it was right to sleep with this guy so soon after meeting him? I don't think so. besides giving him mixed signals you put yourself into a dangerous position.
2006-08-30 01:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a slime ball if he goes after you when he is friends with your ex. just think if you guys hooked up and then broke up or whatever he might try to go after one of your girlfriends how would that make you feel?
2006-08-30 01:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably does have some feelings for you try to get in touch with him and ask him what he meant by that comment and see what he says. Good luck!!
2006-08-30 01:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah think
he obviously cares about you to sleep in the same bed as you and not make any moves
2006-08-30 01:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by head_banger_yyc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because we females have a heart and true feelings and men have....a penis. Seriously, find him!
2006-08-30 01:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋