I always feel this way when my "other mothers" tend to go fussing and complaining at the simple things that should be looked over.....kids should'nt be getting yelled at over spilled milk-unless they are the baddest of them all!!!
2006-08-30 01:28:28 · 9 answers · asked by LovaMan7 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes, i think too much will make them feel that they can`t do anything right.it`s much better to ignore the unwanted &praise the wanted (good stuff they do).
2006-08-30 01:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fussing is nothing. Its when a parent(s) start calling their children losers, stupid and worse that can ruin a child and set them up for failure.
Even so.., a parent should think before fussing over an accident. Is the (ahem) accident like spilled milk a consistent thing? Is the child repeatedly ignoring the requests to clean up his or her room? See what I mean? A child can not just assume he or she can just get by in life doing only what he or she wants to do and take on no responsibility.
2006-08-30 08:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe children should be punished for accidents but only for willful disobediance. When my sons make mistakes I expect them to own up to them and to clean them up or face whatever the consequesces are. For example: Child spills milk, Child wipes up spill. If child picks up glass looks straight at me and dumps glass and is old enough to know this is wrong child will be punished. But "fussing" doesn't work. Action and discussion do.
2006-08-30 08:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is here, but after 4 kids, you learn to pick your battles. A teenager dying her hair blue is relatively small in the scheme of things =)
2006-08-30 08:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mira♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its in how do u handle a situation....If mums all start yelling at every little thing, the poor kid will feel terribly upset....Bt u cant reason if them, they seem 2 think they know best in everythin anywayz
2006-08-30 08:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Zenylt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not fuss over a kid if it can't get it's way , but by the same token the kid shouldn't be chastised for every misdemeanour , tell ' grandma ' to butt out !
2006-08-30 08:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as its constructive criticism then its ok but just yellin to yellin as punishment then theres no good behind it and therefore renders the yellin useless and in vain
2006-08-30 08:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by landk916 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Where is the doubt?
But they still do it .
Can you help it? No
So forget and go ahead
2006-08-30 08:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-30 08:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by avrorina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋