what should i think?
this is what a girl I like emailed me, its obvious that she doesnt want to be more than friends, my question is, is it because she doesnt like me like that,? because she sure used to act like she liked me, and then she backed off, as if she was scared, but i think if she didnt feel anything at all , she would not have put the part about, ruining a frienship in there, please help??
hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
i mean shes only 13 and im 15..so i think shes scared..because, she wouldnt have acted like she did, if she didnt like me
i mean if she didnt like me at all, she wouldnt have led me on, plus her and her mom are REALLY close, and her mom said she is just really really scared, should i move on forever, or just for now
2006-08-30 01:04:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 24 im yet to find true love ur just 15 dont grow up so quickly
2006-08-30 01:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, set them free.
She's too young to be worried about having a boyfriend.
Move on, and who knows, in a couple of years you may have a thing. Just keep being her friend.
I met my husband when I was 14, but we never had the first date until I was 21.
2006-08-30 08:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not yet the right time..you're both young for a relationship...just wait...we are in a similar situation..i'm starting to like my close friend but i keep denying that i like him...she maybe scared and with that age i think she is not yet ready for something deeper...just apprecite the friendship, ..all you have to do is to show her that it won't matter to you if she'l dump you...she would appreciate you more if you would remain friends..
you may start sharing your problems to her but do not show any hint that you still like her...time will come that she would be looking for the person who used to like her...let her appreciate the friendship more as of now cause that would be your alas!
do not hurry!
2006-08-30 08:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by gilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 she shouldn't be dating anybody, including you. Girls at that age should only be "friends" with guys. Since you seem to be pushing her to be more than that, its no wonder that she is backing away. I would "move on" as you describe it if you absolutely can't see yourself being just friends.
2006-08-30 08:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only a young person , when your young you think that one gal is the only one that matters , let me tell you as you get older you work out that its not like that at all , have fun date other gals ..dont put all you mental effort into one gal .
2006-08-30 08:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just chill out a bit and be freinds for a while, she is young and maybe feels too pressured that you will want more from her than she is ready to give
2006-08-30 08:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by kittyurmston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a dog, he will love you more than anygirls in the world.
2006-08-30 08:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not interested, move on
2006-08-30 08:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋