my bestfriend and his girl had a really bad break-up and she said that she would only come back to him if he would prove to her that he trusts her and that she can trust him... i really need the answer cause thr couple was so great and my best friend cries all night and wanted to get back with her...could you help and answer the question?
2006-08-30 00:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by Jozpeh781 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time ... one to show they are worth to be trusted again. Sadly its not a automatic thing that can be given. Hope all works out.
Hugs Mel (Loving Memory to Our Angel, Our Son Zachary)
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2006-08-30 00:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say, why did they break up in the first place? A few years ago I was dating a guy, and I cheated on him, he found out, I felt bad, we broke up for a month. But then he decided that he still had feelings for me and was willing to give me a second chance. I did everything I could to prove to him he could trust me. Things seemed really great. We dated for another two years and then he broke up with me to be with a woman more his age. Even though he didn't break up with me because of trust, and everything seemed great while we were dating, after cheating on him things were never the same. Before I cheated he was ready to marry me. Had I not cheated on him it might have been me he married and not the other woman. If it's mean to be they'll get back together, but if something happened to break the trust in the first place, it will never be the same no matter how hard they try.
2006-08-30 07:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to prove trust is by actions. You have to give the person the chance back in your life and see what they do. Tell your friend to buck up and move on. If you dont have trust you have nothing and if they actual broke up ...someone must have broken trust so either give it another try or move the hell on...no time for games.
2006-08-30 08:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is not something you can prove in a day or two. Building trust takes time, so the only thing you can do is always be truthful, honest, and keep your promises. Trust will come if you are, but it will take time.
2006-08-30 08:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's very fair of the girl. How on earth is your friend supposed to gain her trust again if she won't give him a chance. The only way he can do this is to talk to her and ocnvince her to give him another try, then he will have to prove himself by being a real man and not screwing her about.
2006-08-30 07:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned not given, and once trust is broken the only thing a person can do is wait on time.Time heals, time allows for reflection, a regain of trust and understanding. I know it hurts to see your friend upset and crying but right now he needs time and she needs assurance.
2006-08-30 08:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust only comes with time. Reassurance always works. Communication on how each is feeling is also good. It all depends too if that other person wants to take that leap of faith and trust whoever.
2006-08-30 07:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by janet_67_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through his actions. When he tells her something that he is going to do, stick to it. Ex. "I am going to call you." Call. In fact, call a little early. Surprise her with letters and gifts. She may ravish in delight at all the new attention but that is only because she was hurt by him in the past. In most cases, this will pass. However, just make sure it doesn;t go on for too long. Your friend doesn't deserve to not receive anything from her end.
2006-08-30 07:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's refering to the behavior that made them break up in the first place.
If it was cuz he liked looking at other chicks, he has to prove that he can spend time with her and not be distracted by other girls.
Whatever it may be, he needs to show that he's sorry for what he did, anything he says will be reinforced with actions that match what he says.
2006-08-30 10:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by S_star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person trusts another if he needs him/her.
To place absolute trust on another human being is in itself a disaster, both ways, since each human being is a ship that must sail its own course, even if it go in company with another ship.
u must advise ur friend to forget her - bcoz trust cannot be proved and may be ur friends gf doesn't want to continue..
2006-08-30 08:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋