i been in hospital the last week and half and im happy im out but i fill so weide.
home does not fill like home anymore and i dont know why.
it fills like im traped and i need to get away.
i should be happy but im not. truth is i just want to get away from everything.
i fill so confused!!!!
does anyone know why i fill like this??
honest answers please. thanks
2006-08-30 00:16:24 · 20 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
reason i was in hospital was cos i had bad tummy pains. i need what the doc calls my gulldbladder out next week.
2006-08-30 00:35:35 · update #1
i was in hospital yrs ago i was in for 3months problem is you feel so safe in there and when you get out you don't its hard to get your head round i went back to work still didn't feel right just wanted to go one day someone i hadn't seen for long time turned up and said if you want why not come up to where i live and see how it goes so i did moved from 1part of the country to the other every was going well stopped my medication by self new mates new job new house new bf very happy but was i ?? no i was drinking every night taking drugs etc then one day was at work at bad panic attack had a row with bf i was up there for 3 yrs one day had enough packed my bags and left it was best thing i did i got back home with family my brothers helped me get a new house i had another break done but this 1 was lot worse lasted 3 years still not 100% but getting there what I'm trying to say is don't move away stay with family and friends xx ever need a chat email me or i m me anytime
2006-08-30 03:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you - i think you need a HUGE dose of Tender Loving care. Is there any family you could stay with for a few days? Or close friend. if you dont want to be in your home alone, then dont. Most people are willing to give you some comfort at times like these - the hardest thing is asking for it. And so leave your computer and pick up the phone and give someone a call and arrange to stay with them for a few days. If you have had an operation - then its is quite normal to feel the way you do - it can take quite a time to get over being in hospital - and often the after effects can be quite suprising and unwelcome - dragging up lots of emotions we dont expect. Dont give yourself a hard time about this at all. You need to be cherished. If you are alone without someone close - then i think a trip to your doctor or seeking out a local support group, ie from the church or community might be an idea. I know this can be difficult when you need someone to come to you and not you arrange to go to see them. Have courage. You will feel better about things soon. Give yourself as much rest as possible - and if you have time, think about doing something perhaps that youve always wanted to do - in a gentle way - like that book you always wanted to read, or a trip to a gallery or drawing and painting can be very soothing - even if you think you cannot draw. (appologies if you are an artist) I hope you feel stronger soon. All of us who have had sickness and hospital treatment or generally feeling low - know what you are going through. Courage - and pick up that phone.
2006-08-30 00:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by crazydazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have been in hospital for any significant time then when you come home it does look and feel different, because you have been away. You haven't said why you were in hospital, but would guess at the answer. If you are feeling confused then that is going to lead on to other feelings and it is like pressure that is just starting to build up in you. Are you taking any medication because that can sometimes have side effects that makes you feel strange. Whatever the problem is with your health the answer is just live life one day at a time. Don not try to deal with all your problems at the same time deal with them one at a time. So if there is a problem that needs to be dealt with then deal with that one and forget about the rest for now. Always remember there are lots of other people worse off than you. I hope you feel better soon.
2006-08-30 00:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel out of place every so often. If it persists, then you're probably feeling empty because there is a void that needs to be filled. Just don't fill it up with drugs, sex, food, or whatever else. I think you should seek some sort of counseling (don't be embarrassed, most everyone I know has gone at some point in their lives - me included) or perhaps go to your local church and speak to someone there. I am sorry to say but the only thing that can fill the void is God. In the meantime, all you can do is hold on for dear life and take care of yourself.
2006-08-30 00:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've had a tough time recently. You don't say why you were in hospital but being in hospital can make you feel safe, even if you don't really want to be there.
Wanting to escape from everything is a natural feeling if you feel stressed and it sounds like you do. Confusion can make us feel stressed.
I would love to be able to help you but I can't without knowing a lot more. It sounds like you need to talk to someone who can help you feel calm and help you sort a few feelings out.
Have you ever spoken to Samaritans? They are very kind and will listen to you and support you for as long as you need it. You can email them. http://www.samaritans.org.uk/
By the way, asking for help is a sign of inner strength and a great step to you sorting things out. Good luck.
2006-08-30 00:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been away from your usual routine and have probably established a new one(mentally) when you were in hospital. Also you had constant company and support that you may be missing now. Don't worry, as you become accustomed to being back in your home and getting back into your own routine again, you'll feel more in control and it'll soon be home again!
Hope you're feeling better soon.
2006-08-30 00:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Purple 8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were in hospital being cared for and looked after. All your bodily needs were taken care of. After an illness you were made well again. You got used to this after a few days. Now suddenly you return to your normal life. Don't worry it will wear off after a few hours or couple of days at the most. Just think positive about being home and healthy again!
2006-08-30 00:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by London Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why were you in hospital? Maybe it's something to do with that. But I recommend a wee holiday. Go somewhere hot for a few days. There is nothing wrong with needing to get away from it. Everyone feels that way now and then.
2006-08-30 00:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by helen g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on pain meds for the gall bladder? Sometimes they can cause you to feel this way. Also an allergic reaction to antibiotics can do the same. My son had an allergic reaction to an antibiotic and his adreneline went through the roof. Good luck and hope you get better real soon.
2006-08-30 01:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by paradise_1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember a week I spent in hospital. when i got home I felt kinda weird to. i think maybe it's just a stress reaction thing. You don't get much sleep in hospital. people everywhere. nurses asking questions and shining torches in your face to see if your sleeping. My guess is your over tired. just try and relax. keep thinking about all the good things you did before you went to hospital.
2006-08-30 00:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by luckycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋