what should i think?
this is what a girl I like emailed me, its obvious that she doesnt want to be more than friends, my question is, is it because she doesnt like me like that,? because she sure used to act like she liked me, and then she backed off, as if she was scared, but i think if she didnt feel anything at all , she would not have put the part about, ruining a frienship in there, please help??
hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
i mean shes only 13 and im 15..so i think shes scared..because, she wouldnt have acted like she did, if she didnt like me
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i mean if she didnt like me at all, she wouldnt have led me on, plus her and her mom are REALLY close, and her mom said she is just really really scared, should i move on forever, or just for now
2006-08-30 00:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE STILL YOUNG MY DEAR....AND THE GIRL YOU LOVE IS YOUNGER. ITS NOT YET THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU TO ENTER IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. AND WHEN A GIRL SAYS NO...RESPECT IT. YOU MUST MOVE ON, YOU CAN WAIT FOR HER BUT CONCENTRATE MORE ON YOUR STUDIES WHILE WAITING.
2006-08-30 00:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Angeline_Love16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 15, you have a whole life of girls ahead of you. Just have fun, be her friend, and if more is meant to be then it will in time. You're too young to rush things. Enjoy your childhood while yous till can before next thing you know you're an adult with responsibilities and work and bills and you're looking back at your childhood wishing that your biggest problem was whether not a girl likes you.
2006-08-30 07:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt want to be more than friends, take her word for it. Dont try and search for feelings that arent there. Be her friend and maybe someday you can be more than friends. Move on with your life.
2006-08-30 07:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on!! She made it clear that she only wants friendship and if you are going to keep pushing her you will lose her friendship as well.
Good Luck
2006-08-30 07:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask this before ? this sounds familiar ........
anyhow, she's 13 ! Let her be a kid , stay friends w/ her & if you still like her when she's 17 then ask her to date you. Take care
2006-08-30 07:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are children!!!!
you'll soon be 16 and she'll still be a child for 2 more years...
find someone else or wait until she is old enough!!!
2006-08-30 07:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋