2006-08-30 00:02:25 · 40 answers · asked by delboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I say 'never judge a book by it's cover'. Some people go on looks while other go on personality. I prefer personality as that's what makes a part of you you. You can change your looks anyhow.
2006-08-30 00:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Looks initially but he doesn't have to look all that great, just as long as it is good enough which pretty much means "average." Then the personality comes in. Personality is ten times as important as looks. A guy can look good, but if he has a crappy personality, he might as well been ugly to me. It can also go the other way around too. If a guy has an awesome personality but lacked the looks, I'd still give him a chance. The great thing is that when I am with someone, regardless of their appearance, they usually become the most attractive person to me. Very mind altering.
2006-08-30 00:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in a perfect world i would say personality, But most people are attracted by looks and maybe down the line personality. I think that's why so many relationships fell because some have the tendency to just go for the looks without getting to know the person better.
2006-08-30 00:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks attract but temporarily. Personality attraction is permanent.
2006-08-30 00:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is more important to but there does need to be a physical attraction for me as well for it to work. That doesn't mean that I need to have Brad Pitt; there are many things about a person that I find phyically attractive.
2006-08-30 00:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the time someone who's easy on the eye makes you want to pick up and open the book, but then comes the important part: do you want to actually read further? Personality to a large extent.
personality can also enhance someone's looks
2006-08-30 00:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
any normal person not a psycho person will 1st get attracted by looks coz its the 1st thing u c in a person ... then when they get 2 know that person they could learn about their characters... but somtimes a simple smile can attarct u too even if the person is ugly... but u still gotta know there personality coz thats wht counts
2006-08-30 00:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have heard a lot of people saying personality but i would say that both count.It is that you have to look like Pierce Brosnan or J Lo.It is the way you carry around that matters.I have seen really fat people wearing tight clothes and walking around but they feel so comfortable in them that they even look sexy.Having a cheerful nature and dressed shabbily is something that i cant stand.Have a good personality and dress well.just carry around weel.Other than that if you mean looking like Angelina jolie well i would say no!!!!!
2006-08-30 00:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by golden princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there has to be an attraction first but then you have to have personality for something to come out of it.
2006-08-30 00:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by elle_april_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, often a person becomes better looking the more you know them, most people are quite "ordinary" looking, very few people out there are truly stunning, so most people rely on their personality to win people over.
2006-08-30 00:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋