in 2003 i was in my first and only serious relationship, i have no desire to be with no body else seriously. after i broke up with him i had some trouble with his sister and his new girl.we fought i won but she thought i was doing it to win him but i wasnt, hearsay. in dec,05 my bestfriend whom is his friend also.brought him to my house he siad he thought about me missed me made alot of promises we hooked up that night and he never called again then i heard he was already with a girl wehn we hookedup. i have thought about him alot over the period of 3years. i miss him. i see myself being with him and only him. i miss the times we had and i miss being happy hes the only one who made me feel safe and happy. im feeling he is my true love and its takin all these years for me to realize that i just dont know if he feels the same. i want to get back in contact with him but dont know if his family or him will accept me since the pastdrama? should i call him or just move on? i still thinkofhim
2006-08-29 23:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should move on in your life.forget him
2006-08-29 23:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had a long break,,of course u might have had a serious reationship in da past , but there were lots of things changed in this 3yrs period of time ,and you must should be surely having a better option which was already choosen,by u,so this dilematic thought would literally be an problematic issue for your career so better walk in the same shoes ur into ,n move on the right way you are continuing..to
2006-08-30 07:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by savage garden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an answer to make you feel bad but just to hopefully get you in the right direction.
I would think that talking to a counselor would be a good start to get your self-esteem a bit of a boost and help you on your way to a full and happy life instead of holding on to the past and this nightmare of an relationship that you had.
2006-08-30 07:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means call him if you want him back so badly but first be sure that you really do want him back so badly.
You must be prepared for all the hurt you will experience if his feelings are not the same, but even this may well be preferable to not knowing as it sounds like you are unable to move on a present. Finding out one way or another will fix that.
2006-08-30 07:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please---move on. He is just trying to keep you interested so hecan use you and is not the person you can trust for a true relationship He needs to grow up and you will find that right person, just wait. Good luck to ya!!GaryT
2006-08-30 07:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.... Im sorrry to hear about your feelings for this man... I know its a tough thing........It really sounds as if you cared, but the thing is .. he doesnt seem to care enough for you .If he did he would have contacted you no matter what happened in the past.........Forget him.... and go on with life........Keep busy .. go out with your friends........get a new hairdo or something ... anything to make you feel like a new person.... lol..... but most importantly.....your a good person . im sure... you tell your self that.........and He sure doesnt deserve you .........good luck and be happy....
2006-08-30 07:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by goldensunshine48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a decision which you, and only you can make. You have to live with this guy, if you take him back. Weigh the pros and cons and decide wisely from the heart.
2006-08-30 06:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK VERY SERIOUS OF THE REASONS THAT MADE U BREAK UP. AND BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF- THE HUMAN MIND HAS THE ABILITY TO REMEMBR ONLY THE GOOD MOMENTS AND SHUT OFF THE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.
2006-08-30 07:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some therapy and move on.
2006-08-30 07:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IT'S BETTER MOVE ON....HE MIGHT NOT BE THE ONE FOR YOU ALL ALONG
2006-08-30 06:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Angeline_Love16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋