My girfriend broke up with me for no sound reason,she's been different lately, but I still want to be with her and can do nothing but wait for her to come back to me.
2006-08-29 23:48:52 · 22 answers · asked by lmnop 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yeah man if your positive then give her time but be realistic about it and let God guide you...
2006-08-29 23:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by like a mustardseed 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say how long you've been apart.
She broke up with you for "no sound reason"? Well, to YOU there's no reason, but she had to have a reason for not wanting to be with you. And of course she's been different lately, she doesn't want to be with you any more and you won't let her go! Leave her alone. Don't call her. Don't bother her. Allow her to move on with her life.
Maybe, and it's just a "maybe", if you do these things, she'll change her mind and come back to you. But don't put your life on hold hoping for that. You can't force someone to love you or marry you. Just because YOU know that you want to marry this girl, doesn't mean that SHE wants to marry you. Life isn't always easy or fair. I'm sorry.
2006-08-29 23:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in EXACTLY the same position.
I met someone. Fell in love and then for no good reason, I was dumped a month later.
No one can tell you what to do, you've got to figure out what you want. By the same token, don't waste your life waiting for someone who may never return you affections.
Talk to her, if you can. Ask her why and try to repair what ever wrongs were done.
I know it hurts. I'm just getting over my love 6 months on. (We sensitive romantics are like that nes pa!?) But you've got to decide if you're waiting for love or banging your head against a solid brick wall.
The Iceman.
P.S. She must have broken up with you for a reason- find the reason or take the decision that she was right for you at that point in your life-, and move on.
For the record I've never found out why I was dumped and it tore me in two for a time. But then it doesn't matter in the end. I know I am a good person and thats all that matters.
2006-08-29 23:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... 1st of all u gotta make sure if she still has feelingz 4 u coz if she does even a 10% feeling then she maybe passing through some hard time or some not so clear thought or some confusion about some stuff as thingz got serious... so if she till does have smthing 4 u then wait but make it clear that u r actually waiting 4 her & havent 4gotten her... if she doesnt luv u anymore then its not woth waiting as its hard 2 love again & also make it clear that u understand that its over 4 her & that u r on ur way 2 get over it too.. & best of luck !!!
2006-08-29 23:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're posting this as a Religion and Spirituality question...
Of course its worth the wait!!!
In Genesis 29, Jacob served 7 years to get Rachel, and they seemed like only a few days to him. And that's before Jacob was conned, he then went on to work another 7 years.
What may be a 'God-planned' r/s for us, we have Peace in our hearts, and the feeling is mutual... reciprocal. So if she's not feeling the way she used to have for ya...
Er, think u can start praying to prepare your Heart for your new Girl yeah?
2006-08-30 00:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes, and give her some time. But do not put your life on hold for her. If she broke up with you for no reason that she gave you then it is time for you to move on. If nothing happened in the relationship it may be simply that she grew out of it. And that is not anything bad against you, it happens alot. Or it may be other reasons, like she is interested in someone else, wants to concentrate on herself, etc. Whatever her reasons were, it is not healthy to wait for her unless deep down you feel she is the one. And if she is the one then she will come back. However I still would not put my life on hold for her. Date other people. She has no reason to get mad at you because she is the one that broke it off. If she does, too bad for her. And she may be even more interested in you if you set your infatuation with her aside and concentrate on other areas of your life to better yourself mentally, spiritually, educationally, professionally, etc. You may even find out in your growth that she may not be the one. . .Love does not hurt, and love is not unkind. . .and if she broke up with no reasons then that hurts and it is unkind. You deserve the best, good luck.
2006-08-29 23:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you asked her why? Maybe there was something there, but you were unaware. One, this will allow you to find out what you or her did to subsequently end the relationship, learn from this. Ask her point blank, is this something where time will heal things, or is it permanent? If she says there isn't going to be a reunion, then time for you to move on. It hurts for a while, but everything happens for a reason, even if we can't see that now.
2006-08-29 23:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by dipydoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the word MARRIAGE out of this tricky situation you are in right now. Your girlfriend left you and you need to come to terms with the fact that there's probably a problem netween the both of you. You need to speak to her to resolve things before you move on with your life. It's irresponsible of her to walk out on you without an explanation. But if she chooses not to say anything, move on. She's not worth your love and you deserve someone better than her.
2006-08-29 23:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. I had a girl that I dearly loved. I wanted to marry her, because I couldn't live without her I thought. She said she loved me but she needed space for a while. We broke up and got back together a few times before we got married. After we got married she still wanted her "space". After 4 years of breaking up and getting back together we finally got divorced.
Think hard before you commit yourself to a lifetime with someone.
2006-08-30 00:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure u didnt do any thing maybe she saw you with another girl and she misunderstood, r u still freinds?
just talk to her be nice and maybe eventually ask out again but to a really nice date and just keep being nice dont try to be to serious right off the bat wait a while if ur supposed to be married then just wait oh and best wishes
2006-08-30 00:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your feeling are that strong it would be wise to wait as nobody else will take her place.Try to remain freinds.I once waited 4 months for a guy and would of gladly waited a year but he came back.
2006-08-29 23:54:47 · answer #11 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋