i think i am falling in love with someone....i don't know if i will continue on loving him even it is forbidden.....i cannot have a boy friend bcoz i'm not allowed.... what if that person that I love will ask if i want to be his girl friend....i don't know if I can say "I can't,"and i dont know if I say to him"can you wait for me?"
The boy that i'm felling with has a crush on me.
2006-08-29 23:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by Angeline_Love16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(assuming you are not unfaithful in a marriage situation) - tell him honestly your 'forbidden' situation & your crush. he is good if he willing to wait & respect you (be just friend), otherwise drop him.
2006-08-29 23:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. What others don't know won't hurt you.
2. Confront whoever it is that is forbidding you to love, and tell him/her/them that you're really determined (a.k.a. fight for your love)
3. Do what Yang Guo and Xiao Long Nu did in Jinyong's novel "The Love of the Condor Heroes": they just loved each other even if they were student-master, respectively. In the world of martial arts, love between student and master is forbidden (kinda like your situation, but the latter is exaggerated to the point of executing one of them).
2006-08-29 23:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by humble_samurai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume this is all happening because you're young and your parents are telling you you're not allowed to date. If that is the case, tell the boy up front that as much as you might want to, you can't date him.
2006-08-29 23:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand...keep loving him..but dear do not start any relationships....
If he is a good one..he will come and propose when he is ready
(be patient and never do what is forbidden..to avoid regretting bad decisions in your life)
2006-08-30 00:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by visitaci_sempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forbidden? not allowed?
what
You can do whatever you wish, you are a free person
make your OWN choices, when you were born YOU became in charge of your life and feelings. if it is love, it will work out!
2006-08-29 23:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, love is always unpredictable......it's like a drug, when u've fallen into the trap, it's hard for u to come out of it again......it's addictive, fantastic, imaginary, yet painful......maybe u can say 'wait for me'.....are u too young??? but u guys can be friends first.....u can still see him....lolall the best!!!
2006-08-29 23:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Poise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause your heart doesn't listen to what your parents have to say, kiddo. just tell him exactly why you can't....
then talk to your parents, tell them how you feel about the guy and, if you believe him, how he feels about you. they don't want you to get hurt, but they don't want you to be unhappy either...
2006-08-30 00:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋