Ok well if you were me and you were trying to be firends with ur ex and ur gf doesnt like it. Would u go ahead and be friends with ur ex or no? Oh plus this ex u cheated on ur gf with before. What would u do?
2006-08-29 23:36:52 · 16 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u befriend ur ex knowing that u'd hurt d current gf, u shouldn't do it. U've already betrayed her thrust so why would you want to damage her trust even more? it's a welcome song for a breakup.
spend long enough time to gain back ur gf's trust first... then when she's more open to listen, explain to her ur need to befriend ur ex, then she'll be able to understand you better
2006-08-29 23:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Miss_Perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for the girlfriend then don't strike a relationship up with the ex. Your current girl will constantly question whats going on between you and your ex, it will become a huge hassel, and quite frankly, it isn't fair to the current gf. She would have every right to ? the time you and your ex spend together, specially if you cheated on her with the ex. If ya care for the current gf. Let the ex go.
2006-08-29 23:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by pagudus6669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, normally I would say that your current girlfriend has to learn to trust you and should not tell you who you can and cannot be friends with. Controlling relationships never work. BUT, since you have given your current girlfriend a reason not to trust you then you should not remain friends with your ex if you want to insure your current does not become an ex.
If you are still sleeping with both women then you should choose one or the other. Cheating on both is not fair to either.
2006-08-29 23:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this gf is important to you then you have to understand that she is perfectly justified in wanting you to stay away from your ex. Ditch your ex or your gf.
2006-08-29 23:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by eyesinthedarkness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not you but you shouldn't want to stay friends with exes. It's not good for the relationship you're in right now.
2006-08-29 23:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better don't look for her anymore if u treasure ur gf. U already hurt one lady don't hurt another one again. Be responsible in your actions and decision.
2006-08-29 23:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by doggy n chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullshit!!...I assume at one time that you felt that you LOVED one or the other of these girls...Possibly BOTH ( Yes, that is possible!! )...Love is quite permanent, if it is TRUE...Just having a relationship with someone is NOT love... SEX is not love...Two entirely different things.
You CANNOT at ANY TIME in your life, allow a woman to force you into a COMMITMENT when you are not ABSOLUTELY SURE that you love that person!!...Love does not posses!!...Neither can it BE possessed.
Until you have experienced TRUE LOVE ( believe me, you'll recognize it in no uncertain terms!! ) you can only commit to YOURSELF!!...Don't let them play games with your heart and head...
2006-08-30 00:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your call, Your Ex or your Girlfriend. It's gotta be clear to you that you can't keep them both. I'd say go with your Girlfriend. You've allready tried and failed with your Ex.
2006-08-29 23:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand what's wrong...and correct it!
There are a lot of girls and boys, everyone has the pair, we must look for it. We need God's help for that, you know?
2006-08-29 23:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by anamaria112006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a choice, your GF does have a point in this
2006-08-29 23:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋