the person a chance to look at it to see if it is?
I work the Front Desk of a small Motel...there are only 4 Front Desk clerks & we all work different shifts....
A few days ago, I lost a ring off my finger...it is a heart shaped diamond with a tiny birthstone next to it.....it was given to me when my son was born 8 yrs ago....
I was told yesterday, that one of the desk clerks found a ring in the lobby under one of the chairs.....when I asked the clerk tonight if I could see the ring she found....she refused....she told me it was no where close to being the one I lost....
How can I find out if this is my ring or not....& if it is...how can I go about getting it back?.....it is VERY special to me....my Grandma gave it to when my son was born & she passed away 6 yrs ago...it is all I really have left material wise from her.....
Is there a way I can "make" her allow me to see it?...
2006-08-29 23:22:38 · 10 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I believe if I were you, I'd go to managment. I always say pick your battles, but this is a very important issue and worth fighting for.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 23:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by nightevisions 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was in her situation, I certainly would let you see it, and even if you lied and said it was yours when it wasn't, what have I lost? Nothing! It wasn't mine to begin with.... and if it really was, what have I gained, maybe a friend, maybe some deserved trust, maybe a sense of well-being for having done the right thing. I suppose you could talk to management, although I expect they will be hesitant to do anything, but maybe if you explain to them the sentimental value they would help. I don't know if the police would get involved, but they might help, maybe knowing they're involved will make the ring "magically appear" somewhere you are sure to "accidentally" bump into it. I think the trouble you'll have is that if she found your ring and doesn't want to return it, if she's forced to show you the ring she found, it would probably be a different ring, one she has and never wears or some switch like that. I wish I had better news, but maybe just explaining how much it means to you and possibly posting a "no questions asked" reward would help.... I am sorry for your situation, hope it works out, and take care. -Rick
2006-08-30 00:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible! If your co-worker was a decent person she would have no problem showing you the ring. I would speak to management about the situation, but I don't think there is too much they can do to help. Even if they insist she show you the ring, how would you know she showed you the right ring. Maybe if you have a conversation with her and let her know how important the ring is to you and offer a small reward she may reconsider showing you. I am so very sorry you lost such a special ring and I hope everything works out and you find it.
2006-08-29 23:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on the details given -
the Motel should have a 'lost and found' policy. All items found within the guest rooms and motel premises (especially items of value) should be turned in to a central collection point (usually the Manager or Housekeeper) and documented. The item was found 'in the lobby, under a chair'!
2006-08-29 23:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do this person is not going to show you the ring. She sounds like a horrible person. And even if yo went to a supervisor who ordered she show it to you she would probibly bring in a different ring. Did the person who told you she found the ring actually see it? That might help if she brought in a "fake"
I'm sorry you lost your ring, hopefully she didn't find it and it will turn up.
Blessed Be!
2006-08-31 02:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how childish of your co-worker!id say you should take it up with your supervisor or atleast give her that inclination-but you dont have to threaten her, just remark that you still havent found your ring, and that management offered to look into it. If she's still not cooperating, you should let management look into it, and then you just tell your boss about the situation and he could very casually ask for the ring, since it was found on company property. Keep yourself as distant from the procedure as possible.. you dont need childish enemies to complicate your worklife!
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2016-11-06 01:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your supervisor should help you out here. talk to them. If they dont do anything, call the cops. Sounds like she's stealing your ring...
Good luck.
2006-08-29 23:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by brknarrow23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go to the police.
2006-08-29 23:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your supervisor and let him or her handle it.
2006-08-29 23:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus_Loves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋