Basically the girl im going out with flirts with everyone when we go out with my m8s.But she just tells me she is really friendly. But when i flirt she goes mental and is always tellin me how in love with me she is and that she will never cheat on me. she tells me she loves me like every second of the day. She is always on her phone textin as well. I really dont get what she is doing and what she wants.
Witch now leaves me in a situation that i feel i never belive a word she says.
2006-08-29 23:13:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't dump her give her a chance.... if she keeps flirting with other guys, then well what can i say, maybe shes not serious or right for you... but make your choice after u really see her.
2006-08-29 23:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, and I apologize to anyone who takes this the wrong way, she's acting normal. I don't mean this in the all-women-cheat sense, which isn't true, but I mean this in the they-don't-always-make-sense sense. She may not consider what she's doing flirting... but she might see any friendly interaction a guy starts with a girl as a flirt, thus the implication that she's not doing anything wrong, but you are.
So, don't worry about things too much. Reading into things too much is a mistake. If she's doing something that bothers, insults or hurts you, tell her. If you make her angry by accident, find out what happened and what she thinks should have happened. Encourage her to tell you if you do anything that bothers, insults or hurts her. If there are fundamental disagreements, or if you can't work things out, well, sometimes relationships just don't work.
On the bit with flirting with your mates... if she gets along with your friends, but after your talk you think she isn't seriously flirting with them, it's probably a good thing. Dragging along a girl who doesn't get along with your friends isn't much fun.
Also, whatever we say here, bear in mind that you shouldn't dump her based on these comments. Do you really want to tell her you're ditching her because people on the internet told you to?
2006-08-29 23:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur new girlfriend u need to not doubt her although u may not like the fact that she goes around flirtin with everyone especially them cuties out there because if u do the same she ain't gonna like it either so just try to get to know her better.
I am quite friendly but don't let her know u r stalking her I mean I learn to hug people and socialize with them is that something u r trying to take away honey it is just a coincidence that forget about the past what happened to ur first love did u break up with her or is it that u can't trust her that is why with ur new girlfriend u do the same? Live in the present and don't get too worried about it if u care about her go talk to her and see what the problem is if u don't and keep suspecting her then u are left in a dilemma where u jut don't trust her it is ur consciousness that is telling u so.
2006-08-29 23:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not the same as cheating you need to wise up to that fact some women and men are just natural flirts it really shouldn't bother you unless you are so paranoid you want to finish with her because of it.
The way you describe her as a witch makes me feel she is not right for you she does not deserve to be called that especially by someone who is meant to love her.
I think she can do better
2006-08-29 23:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels she loves you. She flirts for attention because of low self esteem.She may be trying to make you jealous.I dont think shes crazy she might be a great women long run but she is immature and probly has low self esteem. That can change.I use to be just like her.Sit down and have a talk with her.
2006-08-29 23:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set out the rules now.
Tell her how you feel and what you expect and get her to do the same. If you are happy then continue, if you are not then end it.
Happiness is the key .. if one of you is not happy you will both be miserable and this is better to decide at the start when you have invested less emotionally than months / years down the line.
2006-08-29 23:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK mate just enjoy what you have with her and keep a little back so that if it all goes wrong you can keep going. The real answer is that you wont know until some time has passed. Be nice to her, treat her right and then if it goes **** up at least you did your part...
2006-08-29 23:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not so bad to be flirty, even if you are in realtionship... still it is bad if you are cheater. What i find not nice in your situation is that she don't let you be "friendly" the way she is... it could mean two things:
1. she really have bad opinion of herself, and is trying to impress the others for self-fulfillment, and at the same time is afraid not to lose you!
2. she is cheating you and feels guilty so she is trying to play more attached to you than she really is!
2006-08-30 00:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Randy Beaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is an attention hog. Flirting is a two-way street. If she can, you can. If she isn't ok with that then maybe you should find someone better for you and to you.
2006-08-29 23:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her!!!!!! She IS cheating on you and your not doing anything but it SO get ready for acton. Be brave. If she is firting with other men then she is NOT the girl for you. If she lives in your flat or home tell her " go and find a man just for you and don't come back ".
2006-08-29 23:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋