If so, What did you do? Why? Did your spying lead to a confrontation? Did your spying make you feel better or worse because you did it?
(It's a given that we should ALL trust in any great relationship...but I know there are still people out there that just "have to be sure and see it for themselves".)
2006-08-29 22:32:12 · 4 answers · asked by savage garden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once I had bf who was secretive and mysterious. I had my doubt about his honesty. I did snoop and found 'things' in his bag.
I felt better and dump him as fast as I can.
2006-08-29 22:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that I'm not that insecure. If I suspected her fooling around I would ask. I think a strong relationship can go past the I own you type of thing. If she really needs to take a lover, I say let her, as long as it doesn't destroy the relationship, whats the real harm.
2006-08-30 05:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah...and it's a really bad idea. i'm not even going to get into what i did because no sense in giving anyone any ideas. but just let me say it did lead to confrontation and hurt. don't do it. if you love the person just let it go. know that YOU did the right thing. whatever happens.
2006-08-30 05:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by resewllms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him cheating caught him and it felt goooooood
2006-08-30 05:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋