I have been divorced for seven years. I divorced my first wife because of her drug addiction. I remarried last year. My ex-wife has made an extreme turn around and has really gotten her life together. We have a strained, but decent friendship now. She is very active in my son's life now. She is paying for him to go to a very expensive school and has even set aside a nice sum for his future. We both love Jerico very much. I was very pissed when I caught my wife's sister giving my son oral sex. I don't know if I should tell his mother. She can be very voilent and she has known this woman for a long time and never liked her. I just know this is going to turn out bad. If I hide it and she finds out later it is my ***. If I tell her it is my sister in law's ***. I just don't want anything my ex-wife to get hurt or get in trouble for hurting someone else. I am so proud of her and I am happy my son finally has the mother he has missed out on for the last 10 years. Somebody please help me?
2006-08-29 22:29:55 · 36 answers · asked by 21questions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you concerned or jealous? As a parent I would have confronted the situation when it occured- Then if it comes up w/ ex, you have already handled it. If you are a perv, you should have asked her for a BJ too.
2006-08-29 22:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
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2016-08-09 13:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by patlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-21 07:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by swindell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to tell your new wife. What your ex wife doesn't know won't hurt her, but this is a sign of a seriously f***** up woman. She's 27 and married and is giving head to a teenage boy. I wouldn't want to risk that this could go on, or get worse. You also need to have a talk with your son about respecting marriage, and empathy. I can understand the temptation for him, but this is your new sister in law's doing all the way. I can't imagine a 16 year old having the control in that situation.
Yeah I agree with Melthule this will take more than a post on Yahoo! Answers to solve.
1. Speak to your son
2. Speak to your wife
Be prepared for serious resistance from your son, and quite frankly, your new sister in law needs to be horsewhipped.
2006-08-29 22:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your son is 16... that's an age when guys are horny and they'll take it out on anyone or anything. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't tell Mom. What you have to do is make it clear to your son that your new wife is family now, and that he shouldn't be doing stupid things that are going to put your family in jeopardy. And then get over this and get back to the good life. It's a sticky situation now but it doesn't have to ruin your life.
2006-08-29 22:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Taro Shinsei 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 02:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh..it's really a hard situation..and the thing here is, your son with your wife's sister?!
honestly i didn't understand some parts in your question, but i got the main point. try consulting someone trustworthy. also you MUST talk with your son. tell him that it's not right, and if he wants to get things right in his life, he must quit from that stupid business. next talk to your sis-in-law. tell her straight to her face that you don't agree with what's happening, but be sure that you do it in a nice way. explain to her that you don't mean anything to hurt her. tell her that you're worried of your son, and that if ever he got to know some about sex, it's his parent who has to start the topic. convince her that you don't mean to be offensive. after all the talks here and there, say sorry... that's it.
2006-08-29 22:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by junified.bea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, what a dilemma. I'd first talk with both, your son and your sister in law. And I'd go one further and restrict any contact between the two unless of course it is a family type gathering. I would NOT tell my ex. You might want to talk with your present wife and this being ONLY because it is her sister who is the culprit here. Take it from there. You might want to even consider threatening her with telling her husband about it.
2006-08-29 22:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hold on partner!!! Listen to what you are saying. First my main concern would be my son..I'd get his little *** straight, and as far as my sister-in law her butt would no longer be welcomed (she is a child molester). And yes, I would tell my ex maybe she can put some sense in the kids head and a foot up your sister-in laws butt..
2006-08-29 23:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you can just go to the police since your sone is a minor.
here is where I am confused you found your current wife's sister giving or sone oral sex and you did not do anything at the time? Are you saying that your ex-wife knows your wife's sister?
Have you even talked to your sone about what happened?
you are in a tough spot and to be honest I do not think your going to get the answer you want here ....
2006-08-29 22:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by melthule 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hello you are a grown man right. Talk to your son, your wife and her sister and get things fixed. Besides you have the leverage with him being a minor that's pretty bad for your wife's sister. She could go to jail if you press charges.
2006-08-29 22:39:52 · answer #11 · answered by emaleiluv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋