I agree that there is just one lover for everybody for all life. But most of you do sex with many lovers and therefore you make adultery and commit great sin. Also, you do not know if you are married with your true love so even in marriage you may do adultery.
Love and sex is not a sin only if you do it with your second half (male/female). But as long as you have sex and you are married with person that by the word of God do not belong to you, you are making adultery in marriage.
sex is sinfull because most of you do it with wrong person.
You are permitted to make children only with your true love. Children that are not made with your true love are not blessed by God - they are products of sin.
2006-08-29 22:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
"don't marry who you love, love who you marry"
The answer to your question is ABSTINENCE.
Stick to your legal partner, be faithful to him/her.
2006-08-29 22:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'm just geting my coffee now so it's tough to understand this question. I'm not going to agree with you on this one. First, when I read this, I am assuming you're talking about these idea from a Christian viewpoint, and also from you own point of view. The Bible itself is full of contradictions everywhere, so only you can decide which parts are true and which are not. Parts of the Bible sanction polygamy, so you could not go with Christian religion if you believe the things you listed above.
I do not believe that I am half a person, and therefore I was incomplete before I got married. I do not believe that my son (from my first husband) is some sort of a defective sinful product. I love him very much, and though he is not technically a Christian, I am sure he is spiritually and morally a much higher being than a lot of people who profess to be religious people. Interestingly, he never had any experience before he married his wife, so by your definition he would be much less of a sinner than I am.
I do not believe sex out of marriage is adultery, unless one of the parties is married. Also, I don't have any problem with arranged marriages, marriages started without love, homosexual marriage or polygamy. Finally, I would say that you can love more than one person in your lifetime, especially if your partner dies or you get divorced. If sex is only for the purpose of having children, then old people like me should stop having sex, according to your definition. I don't believe that.
If people only were allowed to have sex with their "true love", then it's possible almost no one would have any sex. What if you never run into your true love during your lifetime? Eve if they found their true love, it's quite possible that a lot more than love is necessary to keep the relationship from disintegrating. All relationships, and most especially love, take a lot of work from both parties. Wouldn't it be wonderful if life were so simple, as the question above? I think the statement was made by men, not God. The statement has some value, because fidelity is a virtue and love and marriage are to be esteemed. I just think you should be more careful about listening to people who try to impose their set of values on other people, in order to control them. Their purpose is control rather than establishing a virtuous and civilized society.
2006-08-30 02:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married so that`s the right way to have sex with out adultry even if the other is not your true love . There should be many important things between the wife and the husband beside having sex so never call it a sin again.
2006-08-29 22:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by bakr_abid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only once when your lover is still alive and you're married, that is, once within both your lifetime.
2006-08-29 22:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by kolpo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a question.
2006-08-29 22:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Katia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋