A couple of weeks ago my ex and I got together just as friends, and he seemed to be very unhappy. When I asked him what was wrong he told me that his girlfriend whom is about to have his first child was getting on his nerves. He said she never goes home, and that all she wants to do is be up under him and it was driving him crazy. He said if she wasn't pregnant he wouldn't even be with her, and also told me the sex was bullsh*t. But it seems to me that he must want her there because if she was getting on his nerves like that he would tell her something right? I just don't understand is he lying about being that miserable? If so what the hell is the point?
2006-08-29 21:18:22 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's not lying... maybe its just not as bad as he makes it seem.... relax.. he was in a bad mood...
2006-08-29 21:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't fall for his line of crap.
He's seeing if you're gullible enough to give him one or more 'pity screws'.
He may think he's the best thing that happened to women, but he's a loser who is going to have to pay some serious child support for the next 18 years. And he's just getting started in the producing unwanted children field. You don't need to support a man who can't even support his own children.
Avoid him like the scum that he is. He's made his choice to impregnate a female he didn't even that the courtesy to marry. Tell his girlfriend what he's up to.
He's a lowdown dog who wants to give you some of his fleas. Get away from him. You can do much better.
2006-08-30 04:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a friend, keep an impartial listening ear but if he's interested in you and this really is the situation, run very far away in the other direction. This is something those two need to work out themselves, no help from you. You should just go one with your life and find somebody who honestly deserves you.
2006-08-30 04:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the pressures of having to commit (since there is a baby) is getting to him.He realizes he cant leave so everything she does is huge to him.And even if she is clingy, thats how some pregnant women get.The real question would be... who does he love. Coz I believe he should be with the one he loves...
2006-08-30 04:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by cuteangelshay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to run away from his commitments, and score some sympathy sex , but sure he'll come to his senses and go home to his annoying gf
2006-08-30 04:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i feel he is trying to get the best of both worlds. he knows your emotional weakness for him and he is hitting it right there. you got to be aware of this and move on in life. never retarce a route which u left behind.
if she is troubling him, itz his problem and you got nothing to do with it. look after yourself and assert your individuality. you cant be scrubbed on the floor for someone else`s happiness.
happy times ahead, take care and be good.
2006-08-30 04:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Valerine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's coming to you not only for sympathy and a shoulder to cry on, but perhaps a discreet relationship also.
2006-08-30 04:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be for attention or simply to take advantage of you by playing a sympathy card.
2006-08-30 04:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by William L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make u jealous. all ex are like that, trying to show that they are better off but want to see ur reaction abt it.
ask them to get a life really.
2006-08-30 04:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have thought about that before he knocked her up!
Did she annoy him BEFORE she was pregnant...?
Hes gonna need to get some tolerance for when that bundle of 'joy' arrives!!!
Dont get involved.
2006-08-30 04:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋