how do you like it? dominatrix or you in charge? fave positions? her spitting? or swallowing? what turns you on most? do you prefer both being naked or top half of you both clothed? on top? or her on top? what feels best in sex? noisy sex or quiet sex? foreplay or none? slow or fast? if fast, how fast? in public places (like the woods) or private? indoor or outdoor? one of you in control the whole time? or swapping whos in control? fantasies? bondage? i want to know everything - whats best for YOU?
2006-08-29 21:02:04 · 23 answers · asked by em_is_the_shizz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i genuinely want to know this stuff so please don't just give stupid answers like hai - i'm not gonna go out and buy porn - i want to know how guys feel about this stuff
2006-08-29 21:10:27 · update #1
Bit nosey aren't you? But as I'm in a good mood ...
I like it ... wherever, whenever
In charge ... sometimes
Fave positions ... all of them
Spit or swallow ... swallow but with a little bit dribbling on her chin
Naked or clothed ... naked
Who's on top ... either
Noisy or quiet ... noisy
Foreplay ... definitely!
Slow or fast ... depends on the time and place
Public or private ... both
Indoor or outdoor ... either
Fantasies etc. ... 3some with 2 girls, 3some with bloke, food, filming/photos, schoolgirl, nurse, I'll try most things!
So when are you available for a naughty night in a hotel? ;-)
2006-08-29 21:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often - either can be dominant - changing position as a session progresses always including "doggy", and lady on top, and me standing - mainly naked but dressing up is also interesting, including light bondage, varying who is on top, a ladies orgasm is best in sex, noise level not important, long foreplay essential (love 69 with me on my back and lady above on her hands and knees, great sight!), slow, both but public places can add extra excitement (really enjoyed having a session on a second world war tank left as monument in a park, on sun bed in a sports centre, in the hop store at a brewery), in/outdoor either, swapping control, fantasy talk during a session is also great, as I said light bondage can be fun. What is best - I like to see what is gong on, so daylight or lights on and mirrors - even a video set up on a tripod for a replay.
This is the first time I have reviewed my tastes in this way, interesting experience. Thanks for the question and hope the answer is helpful to you.
2006-08-29 22:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Roadrunner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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The most IMPORTANT thing is TALKING with your
partner, sharing what you both like and discussing
what really turns you on, also setting boundaries
by saying you DONT do this or LOVE doing that,
the who's in charge question is about trust, you need
to have trust so that all of the things you suggest can
be enjoyed by both of you.
Apart from that I can only answer by saying all of the
above.
It really does depend on mood and circumstance,
theres nothing wrong with a 'quicky' grabbed as we
both have a few minutes, and better still haiving the
time to just be really slow and enjoy all of each other.
Variety is great as well.
Enjoy ...
.
2006-08-29 23:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like her being in control to start and get me going. Her on top going slow for a while and both naked. ( sometimes a nice pair of knickers on and slipped to the side lol). I like the heavy breathing from my woman, tho i don't make much noise). foreplay - Yes, definetely. I always go down on her first and make sure she comes. indoors is as good as outdoors..everytime. Then i like to throw her on her back and give a good deep and hard 1 and kissing the whole time..she like's biting my chest...but i find it a bit painfull sometimes. If i'm going for ages, she will get on all fours or lie on her stomach for me lol...which i luuuuv lol. On the corner of the bed, holding her into me is good. Best public place...so far.. would be the toilet on the train from scotland to london...it was a nice tight place lol....what you think ?
2006-08-29 21:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it ALOT. Usually me in charge but sometimes her. Love all positions. Swallowing. Everything else depends on how it happens at that particular time, whatever you feel like doing. There is no better or worse just don't be repetitive. The key is to be confident and follow the rule of thumb 'be a sl*t in the bedroom and a saint outside of it!'. No man would fail to greatly appreciate that.
2006-08-29 21:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by T M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I happen to like her on top, and me from behind. Slobbering over my joy stick while I do the same for her. Lots of foreplay, experimenting alittle, slow and fast is good, waking up to a bj is a fantastic way to start the day. Playing with her back door with either fingers, tounge, joy stick if she is into it. Role playing is fun.
2006-08-29 22:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must say!!! Is a bit early 4 all dis...but at da end of the day i fink it all depends if ur wit a 1 nite stand or a loving partner!!!!!well i fink it does neway....all da fings i do wit ma boyfriend i would never do wit a stranger on a 1 nite stand!!!!!
I fink wit a male its da more dey can get away wit doin 2us da more dey love it...give dem an inch der take a mile!!!!!AY BOYS??
2006-08-29 21:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by 2006hunni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cool when the chick takes charge and is on top, but few girls know how to do that.
EDIT: Since you ask for more.
Well, I don't want to go over the long list of things guys like, since another guy is sure to list that. However, I can tell you that when the girl is turned on, that is the ultimate turn on the for guy. Guys love it when the girl enjoys sex. Oh, and make noise, communicate, and just go crazy. Self-consciousness and insecurity doesn't help in bed, go for what you want and he'll love it.
2006-08-29 21:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
After dinner and dancing we arrive home. She's wearing high heels, pantyhose, a short skirt, white silk blouse. simply looking hot. But her feet are killing her from the dancing. Therefore, I begin to massage her pantyhosed feet slowly and sensously, rubbing each sole, and I begin licking and sucking her toes thru the pantyhose, (she loves that)... wanna read more, email me at eayala9@yahoo.
2006-08-29 21:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpio9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is great, and i have been getting my partner into trying new things is some light bondage. she has been getting used to being in restraints and being tied up. she really gets turned on by it and the fact that i can honestly do what i want. i keep telling her that im going to get her restrained and leave for a while, its just too hard though, literally. we have done just about everything on your list and i will say....yes i like it!
2006-08-29 21:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Craig M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋