This message was sent by my ex bf to me..
"Yeah I am selfish, also me i dont understand why do i have to do that to you.I dont want to hear any story that you're hanging with another guy coz its hurt me.. i dont know.. i dont know why? U know what?For almost 6 years that we've been apart i know our relationship is unfinished, but i dont know what is the right path we're looking for, if we will continue our journey or the way we need to end it up. U kno until now its a BIG question for me why I still inlove with you, yeah am with Janna(her gf right now),Been loyal, never cheated her, she invaded my heart, why theres still a room for you, a room that can conquer me easily.. i know that u know what i am saying. Ive been selfish to u, been trying 2 please u, 2 love me again and hoping to come back again to my life.
2006-08-29 20:35:10 · 37 answers · asked by chic_girL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still loves you, he is saying although he has a girl that there has always been a place for you in his heart. Did the relationship end badly? It sounds like he never got closure and the chance to move on properly. Txt him saying that he will always have a special place in your heart too but the relationship didnt work out and you want him to move on and have a happy life. Thats unless of course you still love him then its up to you but dont hurt this Jenna and cheat on her with him. Good luck with your decision xx
2006-08-29 20:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"i know that u know what i am saying"
well, if thats the case I think you're the only one! That email was so difficult to read!
My advice is simple, you broke up for a reason, remember that and either a) reply saying simply "no thanks" or preferably (if you're strong enough) b) ignore the idiot completely.
Sounds to me like he's going through a stage. It sometimes happens to people when getting seriously into a relationship...we momentarily regress and wonder "what if" regarding our ex's. It usually doesn't last for more than a couple of weeks and then things continue as normal. Just ignore him and get on with your life remembering at all times why you split up in the first place.
2006-08-29 20:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by gromitski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is still in love with you. He can't let go. Confront him about it. Don't reply to his text! You'll just complicate things by sending messages back and forth like the one he sent you.
Were you his first love? How did you feel when you got the message? Happy? Disappointed? Annoyed? Excited? Go on what you felt when you received the message and how you felt about him all along before you got it.
People who read your question dont know anything else about you or him. We dont know even if the break-up was good, bad or indifferent. Only you can understand what the message is about.
Confront him, face to face.
2006-08-29 21:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by The purple sock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to cheat on his new girlfriend. I wonder how she'd feel if she read that message.
He's having a fit of nostalgia - the grass is always greener on the other side and he's looking through rosy tinted glasses. Which isn't a true picture, is it?
You know why you broke up. Think with your head, be strong. Hearts break too easily to have someone as fickle as this muck around with it. If he'd broken up with her first, I would have said: talk about it. But he hasn't. He's keeping her on a string in case you reject him. It's not true love.
2006-08-29 20:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you need to end it especially since he isn't willing to break up with his current girlfriend (Janna) but he feels like you should share him. I would kick dude to the curb because there are alot of men out here that would love you for you and not try to control you. How does he feel like he can tell you that he better not hear you hanging with another guy when he still has his girlfriend. Hon, you can do alot better then that.
2006-08-29 20:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angela D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny how some men can never make up their minds. They want all these different gals and can never be just alone and free and choose the right girl. Lose this guy, he's obviously very immature and cannot make up his mind. If you meant THAT much you'd be together. Plus, he can't even be independent, needs to have a woman at all times...ayayay!
2006-08-29 20:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This dude sounds like a total numpty. He sent all this in a text message?? Thats big of him, I mean he can't even be a*sed to write in full english!! If you mean THAT much to him he could have found a much more meaningful way of letting you know. Ditch this guy for good, get his number out of your phone or text back "Don't ever contact me again".
2006-08-29 21:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by rondavous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i detect this area of what you're saying slightly complicated: "earlier, he despatched him SMS and that i asked my bf to alter his cellular variety. My bf replaced his variety devoid of replying to her. Now, he has a clean variety, she began texting back." He replaced his variety once you asked. stable for him, shows he loves you sufficient to ensure you experience shelter. Then he is going in the back of your back and gives you this woman his new cellular variety, sends her a SMS, or in all probability even noted as her. the two way she have been given the recent variety, maximum probable at as quickly as from him. Now offering that may no longer the case, then you definately've have been given no longer something to concern. If he's willingly showing you those messages, and you probably did no longer stumble upon them by utilising "twist of destiny" than you haven't any longer something to concern. If he grow to be hiding them, and is worried approximately letting you spot his cellular telephone, or would not circulate away it laying around. Shuts it off lots once you're mutually. then you definately've have been given a extreme problem that must be addressed. stable luck to you the two
2016-10-01 02:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants another roll in the hay with you.
He's got another girl, but he thinks you're so desperate you'll jump in the sack with him any time he wants?
You need to cut all ties with this loser. He's playing games, but that's what you can expect from 'this child'. He is NOT a man by any measure.
You can do better than this piece of work. Avoid him like the plague, if he calls, tell him you don't want to take any quality time away from his girl and you're gonna hang up so he can be all dedicated to her, just like his message says.
Then avoid him. You can do MUCH BETTER than this loser.
2006-08-29 20:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by thatwench 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. Sounds to me like he wants Janna, but wants you as his "bit on the side". My advice to you is stay the heck away from him and find a nice single man.
2006-08-30 02:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋