I have known my wife since we were 14 yrs cuz we were in the same school & married at 24yrs, now we have 3 children & we lived happily , although I'm bad person during teenage but my wife was decent type of girl,I never bring her out in groups with my friend nor i have seen any one else beside her till one night that was few mth ago when i was on the way back home at night & it was raining heavily, I saw a girl caught in the rain waiting for a taxi, I stopped to give her alift & send her home, that was the first time i really looked at her with her wet unbutton shirt & can she her bra, really makes me feel horny,I really dont know wat am i doing, instead of sending her home straight, i brought her somewhere else & of cuz i did asked her & she agree, i believe with my reaction she knew wat i want , we went to a quite place then we art if u know wat i mean, she was damn hot but half way i couldnt do it & telling her that I'm married but she said thats ok ..sorry the story ends
2006-08-29 20:27:21 · 17 answers · asked by luke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not a good man.
2006-08-29 20:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i have to say your human and just because your married doesn't mean your perfect or you will not look at another women!Your intentions were good at first and yea they kinda went somewhere else after you got the girl in the car but i have to say you didn't go all the way and i don't know any man hardly that would of said no,esp being in the heat of the moment and the girl being very attractive and willing ,i give you a applause,congrats your one of a kind!!I wouldn't tell my wife cause you didn't do anything and you stopped yourself so let it go.And don't feel bad your still a great husband,you didn't do anything!See men you can say no so this crap i couldn't help my self .bull s$$t read his story and tell me your excuses again!Learn from this guy and the world would be alot better place
2006-08-29 20:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd tell your wife. You are not a bad person, you just gave into temptation. If you are truly sorry you need to ask your wife for forgiveness and then forgive yourself. We all stray away in some form or fashion but you will need to not do this again. It was good of you to give the girl a ride but how do you kniw she wasn't looking for excactly what she got. Or worse she could have stolen your wallet, car, etc. Next time be more cautious and keep it in your pants...
2006-08-29 20:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK a person with morals " BIG CHEER". Now listen to be very very carefully. You have a great wife, you seem a descent enough person. You nearly made a misstate, but stopped where the rest of us couldn't. DO NOT MENTION IT. and the reason...She will never forgive you and she will never believe that you eventually said No. Save your marriage by taking this one to your grave. And don't tell anyone else!
2006-08-29 20:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell her..that will really broke her heart and will start doubting you everytime you go out !!! you can be forgiven but you cant asked her to forget it...just think of the years that you;ve been through ..what's more impt is you realize your'e mistake and wil not do it again ...make a commitment to yourself before things got worst..spend more time with her...appreciate what you have right now ..
2006-08-29 20:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by hollaback holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k buddy im sorry to say but if u didnt sleep with her thats good but u should still tell ur wife u slmost did or u did sleep with that girl she will be pssed but u cant have that berdin on u forever or ur wife will find out someway and be even more mad tell her u have 2
2006-08-29 20:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... how i wish my bf would be just like you...
but when it comes to telling your wife about what happened... i think it would be better if you'll not tell her anymore..
if you love your wife, don't do a thing that will hurt her...
btw, you're a faithful husband... i wish they would produce more men like you... hehehehe
2006-08-29 20:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest and tell her cuz she is a human been and need clear and steady life like you do?
2006-08-29 20:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by lovely life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a life secret, never tell anybody. Only yahoo "answer" peoples and god know. Hopefully, this is your last and final one. God will pardon you! don't worry.
2006-08-30 02:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel attracted to the opposite sex and get horny. If you act on these feelings then it is wrong.
2006-08-29 20:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing that u didnt do it with the girl... but i think that u should tell ur wife abt what happen...
2006-08-30 13:40:34 · answer #11 · answered by Rich Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋