I got married July 2005 and we moved to a movile home. My parents-in-law back then they used to live in Florida with other daugther that they have over there. But now they moved to our city and they came to my house to live. At first they said that they were going to stay mean while they could find a job, They found it right away and they haven't move!!!! I throw rocks(literly speaking) to the conversations and nothing. My husban already talked with them and they said: ok. But nothing. What else should I do?
2006-08-29 20:15:38 · 12 answers · asked by Aridana D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In Spain they have a saying "A guest is welcome for as long as it takes a fish to start to stink!!!" So when a Spaniard is tired of having a guest, he goes and tacks a fish to his front door. The visitor takes the hint.
Go buy a fish and tack it to your front door. When they ask what's going on, tell them this old Spanish saying.
2006-08-29 20:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the house is mobile right? While they are out...move it. I don't know what to tell you, but consider if it was your parents who needed the help too. I do understand how that could be annoying seeing as how it wasn't expected when you got into this situation...and its hard to say anything without wondering how they will take it, but I don't think there is any easy way about it...evict them tell them they got thirty days or try to help them find a place...drop hints like oh I seen this place today that would be perfect for the two of you...if it comes down to it be blunt with them look its time for you to go, worn out your welcome, sorry it had to come to this but it is what it is
2006-08-29 20:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Skinny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwwwww, sweetie! I sympathize. My father-in-law came to live with us temporarily 8 years ago.
I know this may be hard to hear, but family will always put you to the test. You married the man you love, and he is connected to needy relatives. You have some too, I guarantee, that will ask of you favors.
Start establishing your matriarchal status. Boss them around. Tell them what you need done.
If your husband complains, tell him this is your home with him, and you are the queen. Talk to your in-laws. Let them know how much you love their son, and you know that you are all family now...........BUT you are not going to be second in your home.
One of two things will happen. They will see you as a control freak and try to break you up, or back-off and do what you ask, because your husband really loves you and they want him to be happy.
My point to you is.......family (mostly on his side) HAVE MOVED IN AND OUT OF OUR HOME FOR YEARS. I have chased some out, invited some in, took care of, fed, raised, and so on, and so on......
You have to be strong and let the family know you are Queen Bee. When it comes to your husband, trust his heart, but that does not mean, you have to be accommodating to any family factor that dwells in your home.
Always talk to your husband how you feel. When talking to added guests in your home, BE THE QUEEN!
2006-08-29 20:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you finding it impossible to live with them? If not, why not continue to let them stay with you? Look upon the positive side of having them with you and your husband and it may not be so bad.
You might want to know the reasons why you are so keen to have them move out. If they are something you could discuss with them, then do so and get them to keep to your rules and give them a chance to do so. If they aren't prepared, then you have valid reasons to insist on their move. You can explain that you wish to maintain the pleasant relationship you have with them, right?
2006-08-29 20:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly you will possibly desire to confer with a criminal expert, to make specific what regulations have been violated and what you will possibly desire to do. additionally he might desire to provide all of the presents back. He doesnt pick them and that they're a relentless reminder of infedelity interior the marriage. Mabey if she gets the presents back she would be in a position to flow away, because of the fact she would be in a position to be chuffed. confer together with her returned. Dont snort at her. Be truthful and tell her you adore your husband and you're a kinfolk and are going to consistently stay mutually. tell her that she is being a homewrecker and desires to locate a guy who doesnt have already got a women persons. additionally do visit counceling with him. in case you adore one yet another and are desperate to artwork it out you will possibly desire to adress your problems. Dont enable him off the hook to actual. Make him coach he's truthful. solid good fortune. you're a solid women persons who has persevered plenty. it gets extra good till now it gets less demanding.
2016-11-06 01:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband need to get a definite answer from them, they need to tell you exactly when they will be leaving, maybe you and your husband can take them apartment hunting. try to stay calm and don't let this situation turn ugly because family is family and it's best to get along.
2006-08-29 20:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They lived with a year so far, well how long did you live with them before moving out?
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2006-08-29 20:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dogstyle01 said it best, short, to the point and right on target!
2006-08-29 20:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a gift certificate to a restaurant....when they're having dinner...change the locks...they'll get the hint
2006-08-29 20:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Campbell Gramma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw them out
2006-09-01 22:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋