2006-08-29 20:14:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ex's rarely ever pay back money once the relationship has ended... then you have nothing to hold over their head to get reimbursement. If it's a large amount, consider small claims court and sue him for it. If it's a smaller amount, cut your losses and consider yourself better off!
2006-08-29 20:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much he owes you. If it's like a small amount, say $50, leave it alone. But if it's more, you might want to try taking him to small claims court (ie: People's Court or Judge Judy). Now here comes the tricky part: was it a loan? did he sign a statement that claims that he will pay you back? These are a few things that you might want to concern before filing in court. Check out People's Court on TV to see. Good luck!
2006-08-30 03:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by rosyrotten47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not an honourable guy, you think he's gonna pay you back?
Consider it as money you pay for a lesson learned and move on to the next chapter of your life with someone else.
The lesson you ought to learn is that in a relationship with your partner, it is difficult to consider money changing hands as loans, unless it has been properly (legally) documented on paper.
Once you forget about that and go on with your new life, you will be happier!
2006-08-30 03:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up with some big guys .. and ask him about the money he ows you
2006-08-30 03:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by tumeni_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to request him to pay back the money by writing to him reminding of the money he has taken. If he don't aspect than go to the lawyer
2006-08-30 06:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by FK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you watch Judge Judy, chances are you wont get him to pay up, so you have to take the lose and learn from this. don't give guys money. it makes you look desperate.
2006-08-30 03:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on forget the money! In life sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. learn to take losses and move on
2006-08-30 03:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by sentinel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him nicely. If that doesn't work...
Gather some evidence and haul his *** to court! If you don't have evidence, and it's a substancial amount of money, get your new boyfriend to "persuade" him to cough it up.
2006-08-30 03:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... that also happened to me... that was 2 years ago... that bastard! he owed me a brand new cellphone.. he never paid me back...
so my advice is don't bother anymore... believe in karma... everything that comes up.. must come down...
so girl.. learn from it... don't lend money especially to bfs... but its ok to borrow money from them...
2006-08-30 03:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlyDemonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats very easy. if you tell him many times already the money he owes you,then tell the police and arrest him!!!!
2006-08-30 03:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by My_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋