There is guy who I like, we we use to flirt alot, but I guess both of were too shy to act on anything. Well, I got tired and decided to end this crap, because its at stalemate now.
I have been ignoring this guy, like being mean, walking right by not speaking. Looking him dead in the eye and turning the other way. Taking the long way to avoid him , but he is still nice to me. He still speaks and is very polite. And makes an obvious effort to speak to me or touch me. Even when I am rude or mean to him.
He still tries to make eye contact and I ignore it, and he will come over and speak anyways. I avoid him at all cost and dont really talk to him anymore. But he is still so sweet.
Whats up with that? I don't get it? Wouldn't he get the picture and give it up already?
2006-08-29 19:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, I know what you mean ... I've had friends that have been into those stuck up little bitches too. Don't have a clue.
2006-08-29 20:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a long look at your situation. You are not giving a man that really likes you for you a fair shake. You are messing up here. There is no reason to be mean to somebody deliberately. People look down on that.
It also nice to have somebody who genuinely cares about you around. Even though your thing in your eyes didn't go anywhere. Maybe you stopped your relationship to quick with him.
Also remember this, right now from the way you are explaining things:
He is nice and you are mean. People will deal with a nice person any day over a mean person. Also other people watch they way you act. You never know who is watching.
My new girlfriend decided to go out with me not because of me pursuing her or what I did for her prior to our relationship. She liked the way I treated everyone (Little kids to senior citizens who all needed help in some way) with undivided respect and kindness to all. She said that it is so impressing how I make time to listen to everyone and satify there needs the best way possible. That was the clincher for her because she want someone to do that for her in her life. She was watching me and I didn't know it at the time.
2006-08-29 20:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what spoiled little baby. You don't get your way you pout. Did you ever think he wants to be your friend!!!!! some times people like to be freinds!!! May be he mistook your flirting as wanting to be friends and he is comfortable with that. If you eant a relationsip that bad why DIDN"T YOU say something to him. Your blaming him for something you could have taken care of!!!!! Again a nice guy is treated like crap by some chick!!!!If he wan't such a nice guy he would have thrown your butt to the curb along tie ago, but he values your friendship more than that. Why I don't know, Maybe if he saw this question he would give up because he deserves awhole lot better than you.
2006-08-29 20:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May be he like you very much and you too feelilng this but you are trying to ignore your heart sometime as your relationship was not so interesting for you but i think that guy is serious friend dearly want your company. He is right at his place b'coz you ae running from him and from yourself. Why don't you go to that person and talk that wht is going on i am sure that bothj fo you will come on a decision soon and your company too.
Give some time to your relation ship. Please.
2006-08-29 20:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this person isn't ready to give it up yet! Why? because he valures this relationship a lot. It really is hard to let go of relationships that you think was meant to be treasured. So If I were you, don't be too shy to approach him and ask him the questions you wanna ask, no one can tell you why he do this but only him alone.
2006-08-29 20:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to get the picture and figure out a better way of communicating to him. Like, TELL him why you are acting like a jerk. Explain exactly what you just typed and hope that he forgives you for taking the immature way.
2006-08-29 20:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look this guy is a rare species of a gentleman, he obviously likes you and he knows you dont, but he is courteous enough to take it all in a stride and continue being humane to you. Stop being childish and get over your pride
2006-08-29 20:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ravishing Rue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why you are treating him so mean. Just because the relationship didn't progress, you can still be his friend. It sounds as if you need to grow up. He sounds like a real catch for somebody. Shame on you.
2006-08-29 20:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he dont understand suddenly what happened to u ,n also feels that may b he had hurt u n u r upset wid him n now trying to show that he loves u , what is in ur heart do u love him ........... if yes then go 4 it if no then dont bother.
2006-08-29 20:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this guy really likes you too but he's kinda confuse of it, does he know what u feel for him? why don't you ask him...he's nice and i think he'll not refuse answering your question..
2006-08-29 20:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋