i had this feelings that our relationship is not yet finished. we've been friends after we broke up.. we know each other very well that everybody doesnt understand why are we still like this. i dont know.. i tried to move on. i always pray to God to help me to find the right man that i will love more than him.
2006-08-29 19:52:32 · 14 answers · asked by chic_girL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you'll ever love anyone as much as you did THE ONE. It always stays in the pit of your stomache like a foriegn object. Little things you see remind you of him and make you wanna go back. But the truth is you cant. All you can do is try and stay occupied with someone else. Not neccasarily replace him. Just stay occupied. Just remeber it didnt work for a reason,
2006-08-29 19:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by TRIXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what one cant really be friends once you have feelings for someone, so both of you just wake up before its too late. If he still dusnt have a gf, ask him whether you can give this r'ship a second chance since its so important to you. Else, if you are shy, give him hints that u still care for him, may be act jealous if he gets close to another female. This will make him realize you still have feelings and if he really loved you six yrs back, then find out whats stopping him now.
Good luck and do let us know what happened!!
2006-08-29 20:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Eternity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel so strongly and your still friends, then you gotta speak to him, and tell him how your feeling. You never know, he may feel exactly the same way.
If however, he's in a relationship, and he's happy, you've got to move on. There is someone out there for you, but while you keep thinking about your ex nobody is ever going to live up to your expectations.
Good Luck
2006-08-29 20:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for praying to God for a replacement. I am doing the same even though it would be a dream come true if my ex came back to me. But you have to move on so you won't regret these moments and wish you hadn't been so caught up in thinking about him. I know it's hard to do but ya gotta...
Take care.
2006-08-29 19:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So why can't you get back together? Sounds like you are both still into each other.
If there is no chance I would opt for a clean break. Very very painful at the time, believe me, but it does pass.
2006-08-29 19:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by hadjama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear u need to make a clean break in order to move on with your life...if thats not possible, then why dnt u get back 2gether, coz it sounds like u both still into each other......the worst thing is not knowing the what ifs...so why dont you give it another go!
2006-08-29 20:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by nesiangal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe intelligent people choose the one they love. Don't you feel you've wasted 6 years of your life over this guy? It's 6 years you can't get back, honey. And after all this time, he hasn't made any effort to get back together, face it: He's not into you.
2006-08-29 19:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the past,look towards the future and try really hard to find someone if that is what you want to do.If you and him were meant to be together it will happen regardless of whether you date other guys or not.
2006-08-29 20:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend of 4 years and me broke up 2 years ago...im still not over it, he hasnt had a girlfriend since, and i dated a guy for 3 months and then realized, i still loved my ex...sometimes you'll never get over it and that's when you know its for real, if he still loves you then you should be together!
2006-08-29 19:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in denial!
Prayers to God? Do me a favour! It's no wonder you're not moving on.
Direct your own life, make it happen and stop drifting!
Sheeeesh!
2006-08-29 20:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Eyewash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋