im 19, and still a virgin?

Question

i thought putting this under dating was the best bet.

Im pretty, tan, nice smile and all that good shyt. im not waiting for marriage [and i dont plan to, cuz who knows when i'll get married] or anything like that..its just that, none of the relationships i've had, have worked out far enought to do it.

should i be concerned...i dont wanna go into my 20s while still living in virginity land!

i think i should be concerned....im basically the last virgin i know....its time to jump on it.

i dont think i'll get all clingy, im not stereotypical like that

Answer 1

stay a virgan as long as you as you can , you must be one amazing women to be to so strong / have fun later you can control men as lonng as you want.

Answer 2

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19... and it was with someone I truly cared for and I have never regretted it. Make sure that it's right, that you're ready, and that you're careful. Sex is a big step and you need to remember that there are a lot of other things that go hand in hand with it... ie pregnancy, stds, clingy psycho men, you get the picture. You're no different the day after you turn 20 than you were the day before. And you're no different after sex than when you were a virgin. Life still feels the same on the other side! So take your time and do it how you really want to do it.

Answer 3

Is there a reason that you don't even plan to wait for marriage? You might as well paint a yellow sign on your forehead that says TRASH. Don't you want more for yourself?

I'm 22 and I'm getting married to the guy I lost my virginity to. It meant a lot more to us both and I can't imagine wanting to sleep with someone because I didn't want to be a virgin. That's something you can't ever get back, and it isn't important to you until you lose it.

But if you still want to, just tell a guy in a bar or club you're a virgin. That aught to do it.

Answer 4

It would be quite easy to find a guy to just have sex with if all you interested in is losing your virginity, but alot of people want their first time to be 'special' and just hooking up with any random guy would be anything but special, also if you are a virgin you have no way of knowing if you will have an emotional attachment to the 'random hookup' so I am not saying that should wait until marriage but at least date the guy a few times first.

Answer 5

Don't be in a big hurry to lose your virginity!! It's THE ONE thing you can NEVER GET BACK!!

You should never want to lose your virginity because you don't want to be a virgin in your 20's. Do you also want to be an unwed mother in your 20's?

You should give the gift of yourself to someone you know well and trust. With all the diseases and other crud out there today, it's in your best interest to wait unitl you meet that special someone you want to share yourself with, and make sure they don't have ANY DISEASES. Don't take their word for it. Ask for the paper that says they're clean. If they get pissy, they've got something to hide.

Take your time and look for someone who will be worthy of the very special gift you have to give.

Answer 6

It's great that you value yourself highly enough to wait for someone worthwhile. Trust someone who was just like you, it's worth waiting. I wasn't waiting for marriage either, just the right person to trust with something I valued. It ended up that I did marry him and I've never regretted waiting for him... he's pretty perfect :)

Try to remember why you began believing in waiting when you start feeling like there's some kind of "best before" date on your virginity. No man is going to mind that you waited for him... that I know from experience

Answer 7

Why not? Your heart is telling you something!
You don't need a reason to have sex & I am sure alot of whoremongers out there would love to jump your bones!
If you haven't had sex,you are saving your virtue for something!You never know what is around the corner!God might send you the most wonderful man in the world & you will be glad you waited!

Answer 8

Poor lad!
if nothing has ever worked for you, find a friend near you and get over your guilt of being still virgie. Although it's not a problem enough; by your description of yourself, there might be many eager cocks around to end your virginity.

Answer 9

What's your hurry?

You've got a great gift to give to your husband - just the way God intended. You'll bring no baggage into your marriage. You'll bring no STDs into your marriage. You'll bring no baby into your marriage. He will have the assurance that no one else has been there. What a wonderful thing!!

Don't mess up now, just to say that you did! Stay pure, and look for the one guy worthy of you. Believe it or not, there are guys out there saving themselves for girls like you.

Answer 10

I am also 19, just like you but I love this state of being somehow innocent. Anyway, if you really wanna get laid, correspond with older men. Those who are at least 9 years older than you. They have great experience. I can give you some of my past chatmates who almost convinced me into spending wild nights with them. Say?

Answer 11

...i dont wanna go into my 20s while still living in virginity land!
WHY? there isn't anything wrong with it if you are comfortable with it, so you haven't met the right guy, wait til you do

Or if you just want some no strings attached sex get a hold of me