i have a bf.we have been dating for bout 5 months now.i love him so much.n we havent done anything..'wild'.until last week when we were at the movies, we french kissed a lot of times.the problem is, i got an important major exam in 3 months time.i have to study...so this means,i wont b seeing him for 3 months!!!!! he understand that i have to study...but im just afraid that, after 3 months, his feelings towards me will change..mayb after 3 months,the love inside him towards me..starts to wear off. :( n i dont want that to happen coz i love him so much! n he said "i will still love if anything happens..remember that" the question is, do guys just change their deep feelings towards someone just like that?? if ure in love with someone...& u dont see him/her for 3 months, will your feelings towards him/her change??
2006-08-29 19:20:40 · 18 answers · asked by dolly parker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dolly, guys don't just stop loving a person. If he really does love you, and I'm not questioning that, he will Wait for you, not even a model from playboy could get him away from you, but if he's just interested in you for your body, then he will most likely leave you for someone else. It's the times of separation that show you the true feelings of a person. There's nothing on this Earth that can change a persons true feelings for someone during a time of separation, if anything, the fact that he can't see you, will only make his love for you stronger. So, don't worry, do your best at your exam, and when you do see your boyfriend next, give him a great big sloppy kiss and tell him how glad you are that he waited.
2006-08-29 19:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think even if you don't see each other for 3 months then you'll have to give him a holler every other day. Because you don't call or talk with him for three months then he'll probably feel hurt. I think if the roles were reversed then you'd want him to give you a holler a few times a week between studying. Plus you can't study 24/7 so go see him so you stay in his mind!
2006-08-30 02:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have been dating for 5 months then won't see him for 3 months. It will have to be a strong relationship to last that long without seeing each other. Can you not see him at all for 3 months? Not even like once a week? Maybe you could try that, and then it won't be so bad.
2006-08-30 02:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by ttaM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important to you some exam or your relationship.Spent quality time doing what is most important to you. You have your whole life a head of you for studying. But good Love may only come once in your lifetime.lf it's true Love you would want to be with him even when your studying.
2006-08-30 03:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...if you just dissapear for 3 months its a pretty fair assumption. You should keep calling him and see him once a week. I've studied as well, but I have never been a hermit for 3 months - it's unhealthy not to see people and have fun on your study breaks.
And, it may as well be with him once or twice a week. That way he won't be bored - especially if u offer him more french kisses ;)
xo Honey
2006-08-30 02:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Honey78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be some exam. I would call him as often as you can and keep the communication going. I would also make it a point to see him as much as I could, at least once a month. But I do understand about your exam and time. Well if it is meant to be then he will stick with you.
2006-08-30 02:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if ur reffering to sex as wild, then i'm not sure. the guy sounds like he aint in this for sex, so yeah. u can't expect him NOT to meet other girls in these 3 months, but if u left a good impression, he'll still be there when u come back. hell, a girl hurt me a while back, and i was ready to take her back after a year. aanyways, life is filled with these sortsa things. the good ones will always wait for ya.
2006-08-30 02:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry more about your education. You only have one shot at that exam. Education means so much more in the long run. If you guys were to make a run at it both of will be there in the end of this period when the exam is done.
Also he is not the only man on the face of the earth.
2006-08-30 02:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, chances are that he will start seeing other girls. If they happen to be good for him, better than you are, his feeling will change and he will not stay with you.
If they're not as better than you, he will probably just sleep around for pleasure and return to you. Now nobody knows, but since you love him alot, i'm sure you wouldn't mind if he slept around during that 3 months would you?
2006-08-30 02:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..3 mths is a pretty long time if u don see him... love will waver for one..maybe ur bf or you..but the thing is if both of u really love each other..the time won't matter..yea..u'll feel outlove...but when u get to see each other again..the love u tot u had for the other was gone, will gone russhing back again..feling like u just fell in love..
thats what happen to me..
feeelings will defintely change..trust me..but like i said..if he loves u..he'll TRY not to hurt ur feelings..
2006-08-30 02:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋