I had met my ex-girlfriend at a party,we struck-up a conversation and we ended dancing the night away.I asked to kiss her,but she would not let me because she was dating another guy at that time.We did not see each other for 5 months,since we lived 100 miles apart,but we built a solid friendship based entirely on communication.For the first 3 months we only talked on AIM and then we began calling each other.We began a long-distance relationship,we took turns driving to see each other on the weekends (I am a recent college grad and she's a senior college)she told me time and time again how happy she was with me(her best friends also took me aside and told me that they had never seen her happier).Call it what you may, but I felt that for once in my life, i had found someone who truly made me feel happy and glad to be alive.For the record we did have our share of problems, but I made sure that we resolved them.Given that she was so happy with me,she told me to she wanted to be single.
2006-08-29 19:13:28 · 6 answers · asked by tkd1master 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Four months into the relationship, which she had assured me was going great (we were completely devoted to each other, btw), she wanted to leave because all she wanted was to be single and have fun?!?!?!? She definately had that with me and i am definately not the controlling type.
It shocked me(as well as her parents, my parents, her friends, my friends, and practically everyone that we knew) especially since the day before we were making detailed plans, and the next day she decides to end the relationship. To me at least this much doesn't make sense, if she was so damn happy with me, why leave? For the record, she did not meet another guy, i asked around all her girlfriends and they assured me that she had left me for someone new.
I am in the process of getting over her, but i think it would help me to figure out why she suddenly wanted to be single. LADIES PLEASE HELP! Also if anyone, knows how i can get rid of this false hope, that she will be back, i would appreciate it. =(
2006-08-29 19:23:09 · update #1
Me and my ex-girlfriend have talked and despite much conversation and probing into the matter, the main reason for the break-up was that she felt she needed to be single and go out and have fun with friends. Again, i never denied her that, I trusted her completely as she trusted me completely.
2006-08-29 19:32:18 · update #2
I've been in a similar situation with my ex-bf, and I gave him the same reason. Thing was I really cared about him and enjoyed his company, but I knew I didn't want to marry him. So I broke it off because I knew he was more serious than me, and that he would just end up hurt.
2006-08-29 20:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there,
well i think she wasn`t really happy in the relationship being opened and honest with you just by chance you and everyone were seeing what they wanted to see and believe as hard as it seem`s right now.....you have just been given up prolly for some else i guess but as the saying goes what come`s around goes around i totally understand where your coming from and at the same time i am sorry for you not being pity on you or anything like that but i have been through the same thing as you the question about i did the same thing as your gf has done to you which is pretty sad when you think about it but on saying that it`s best for the both of you to go your separate ways but still be good friend`s in the long run ain`t you glad she has been straight up with you before thing`s got to the stage where you were to propose to her....i wish you all the luck in finding your true love she is out there somewhere closer then you think well i hope i have some what helped you in trying too understand just from where your gf was coming from......Tc GB peace out
2006-08-29 19:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things:
1. Maybe she doesn't think you're the "rilla dilla" and loves how you make her feel but she is not sure how she feels about you yet.
2. She feels alot for you but hates the distance and the driving, wants to feel the way you make her feel but having no strings attached because of the distance.
3. Has her eye on someone else only because he is closer, and more convenient.
Ask her. If she cares about you enough, she will tell you the answer.
2006-08-29 19:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by PerfeclyImperfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 23:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a girlfriend; not an ex-girlfriend. (my hat is off to her, by the way-she is not serious about you...just friendly towards you.
2006-08-29 19:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid ...You need to reassure her that everything is alright and though she may feel that way now , She may change her mind
2006-08-29 19:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋