breakup sucks, this is not the first time i broke up, but i have never felt that upset and heart broken before. i dunno why. because i m older? because i love him too much? m i the only one feels like that?
2006-08-29 19:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there. It seems like the world has come to an end-but believe me it hasn't. The best part of your life is yet to come.
2006-08-29 19:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are not alone, all break-ups are bad and sad, that's why they are called break-ups. If things stayed good, people wouldn't breakup. I'm sorry you're hurting. Nothing hurts as bad as a broken heart. I truly believe that once you truly love someone you will always love them, but as time goes on you sometimes realize that they were not good for you. Nobody wants someone that doesn't want them back. Cry a little, pick yourself up and take care of you.You will find love again, maybe not the same kind of love, there are many kinds of love. Maybe your next love will be even better and stronger than this one.
2006-08-30 02:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us--sooner or later. Take comfort knowing that you're not alone, and that you, along with everyone else, always survives it.
I've had several bad ones, including a divorce that I didn't think I would ever get over,,,,but I did. And so will you.
The best thing I found to do is to wish your ex well. I don't know why it works, but something about it frees you up to move on. The prolonged pain comes from wanting things to be different than they are. Wishing him well causes some part of you to accept what has happened, and that gets you ready for what's next. Good luck.
2006-08-30 02:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakup! doesn't stops you from making a forward move in life. Even i had a breakup n now my marriage is on rocks! but we find something or the other to come out of it. I have my daughter so you must be having someone close to you maybe your pet. You will soon come out of it n later feel that it was just a nightmare! Aa soon as you come out of it better for you. All the best.
2006-08-30 02:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by silvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break up is a very traumatic thing. It's the end of something you've gotten used to. It's like someone moved your dish.
You have to tell yourself that life does go on, you will come through this wiser and still have your pride and self-respect.
You aren't the only one who feels like that. It's perfectly normal to grieve for the end of a relationship. Just don't dwell on it all the time.
You have to pick yourself up and go on. Who knows? You just might meet the one for you. Don't hurry into another relationship. Take some time for yourself and see how good you truly do have it.
Take care and take it slow.
2006-08-30 02:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say how ever long it took you to fall in love, it takes twice as long to get over them.
ya, it does suck! everybody's been thru it a time or two. it's hard, but ya just got to take one day at a time........
i'm really sorry, cuz' i do know how it feels!
2006-08-30 02:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tuffins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were not the only one girl... still now i'm going through a lot after a break up with my bf... but we are still seeing each other, and that's what making it hurts more... knowing that you can't have him even he is at your side... i wish you well...
2006-08-30 02:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. some break-ups hurt more jsut because you love them more and you feel more attached
2006-08-30 02:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by marshall s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of people it's pretty sad
2006-08-30 02:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by what is the good word? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not the only one.
2006-08-30 02:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by AugustMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋