so i've liked this girl who has a cottage down the lake from mine, for a really long time. I go down there every weekend because our parents grew up together and the 26 kids down there love me. They do tease me and her alot because they found out that i have a major crush on their sister/cousin. the girl is a year younger than me but she is real mature. she however isnt into dating that much. she is always on my mind and i can't get over her. and this being the last weekend of the summer i want to finally make a move on her but i dont want to ruin our friendship or freak her out. Her family is huge and they are always around so it is tough to get her to talk alone. Should i make a move on her or back off? what would be an appropriate move to put on her? i need any advice you guys might have.
2006-08-29 18:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hockey51319 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move! move! move!
2006-08-29 19:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by xacarob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Jeff,
to me personally Hun don`t make any sudden move`s on her...for that will be like rushing her into something she may not be ready for even tho you say she act`s mature....just tell her you have enjoyed her company and would really like to stay in touch see how the expression on her face when you tell her that....when you feel it is the right time then tell her you would like to be more then just friends give her sometime to think it over the last thing you would want is to is for her not to be in your life i know exactly where you are coming from Hun it`s all good just take it as she does if she not want to be more then just friend`s be happy either way i think you too will make long life friends for life and that is so rare......good luck i wish you all the best if other`s post you saying crap ignore them for your sake as your female friend`s Tc GB peace out
2006-08-29 19:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and make a move on her, otherwise, you'll never know. If it doesn't turn out well and she rejects you, you'll have the rest of the year to lick your wounds before meeting up with her again. By then, who knows? She could've changed her mind. Sincerity has a way of getting through to a girl's heart you know.
2006-08-29 19:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-29 19:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by freakhazerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-05 14:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her feel that she's special to u and that u like her too, but don't tell her YET that u love her. And in everything you do, just be yourself.
2006-08-29 19:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just say to her that u have feelings for her coz u nvr know maybe she have feelings for you too...if u ended up not telling her,u will regret it for your entire life..so go for it..be really cool and im sure she wont freak out.
2006-08-29 19:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋