a guy I am dating said I'm smart funny very very sexy and cute when I slip up on something and say just kidding and he likes how I'm going back to school, are these all things that will keep a guy interested? especially when we had sex and he said I'm great in bed besides that though does those other quailities interest men? I have one more question, does guys like to hear alot how much you like them or miss them? Plz help
2006-08-29 18:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have told him how I feel about him also, like his personality his respectfulness and how he has goals. I don't need to be getting critisism I'm being serious and I'm older than 19 thank you.
2006-08-29 19:04:25 · update #1
OK, most guys don't want you to call them every day and tell them how much you miss/love them, but they love to hear you say that at the beginning of a date or something like that. The fact that you're going back to school is definitely a good thing in his eyes, especially if he's gone through college. Guys sometimes like to have deep conversations with their girls, and if he sees you as able to talk at his level is a BIG plus in your favor. In my humble opinion, this guy sounds like a keeper. Although I'd suggest that you test him, and tell him no when he asks for sex a couple times in a row, if he respects that, it's all good. But if not, beware. Hope that helps you out.
2006-08-29 19:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't spend a lot of effort "trying" so hard to become someone else to keep him interested.
Look for common interests (besides the obvious), and
suggest that you share an activity. Hey, don't wait ar-
ound for him to make the move. Ask HIM out, and just
be yourself and have fun.
As for the second question, just be careful to not pres-
sure or suffocate him. Slow down, girl. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 02:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by bernie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the like him, miss him low key, don't over do it, that gets clingy, needy fast.
The more complicated you are, the more interesting you're likely to be. You have to have a life of your own to share. Any man who doesn't like you because you're pursuing a higher education shouldn't be anything more than a casual fling. Sounds like you're falling fast, good for you, hope you're both happy but do keep your eyes open and don't go too fast and wind up hurt.
2006-08-30 02:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by memac63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds like he really digs you. You seem to be cool,,just relax and keep good communication between the two of you. Also its okay to tell him how much you like him and miss him but don't over do it,it might make him feel a little smothered. Just relax,if its meant to be it will last.
2006-08-30 02:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he won't be around for long. i think he is just looking for a quick "somethin somethin" then while you've banging books shut, he's gonna be banging other girls.
also, i think you're making yourself to available and too into this guy. if he thinks he's on your mind all the time he knows he can always rely on you to be there no matter if he cheats on you or whatever the case may be.
2006-08-30 02:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey51319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those qualities are important because then you only have a person for sex, all those other things are important because then you are a person that the guy can interact with and have fun other than sex, but hey sex is always good
2006-08-30 02:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your too young to have sex shut up
2006-08-30 02:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as a guy is fascinated, he likes anything and everything about u
2006-08-30 02:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be a two way street. both should state how they feel not just one.
2006-08-30 02:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋