this guy asked me this and i didn't know what to tell him.
2006-08-29 18:55:54 · 38 answers · asked by mizzang3la 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I do indeed believe that it is okay for somebody to think whatever they want about anybody/anything else. It would be much worse than whatever they're thinking to limit their ability to think about whatever the hell they want as long as they keep it inside their head. So in the sense that everybody has the right to think, I do indeed believe that it is okay for guys to think anything about girls.
But, in the sense of respect, it is definitely not okay for guys to think anything nasty or wrong about girls. However, respect is a feeling, not an action, and you cannot force someone to respect someone else (though you can force them to act politely towards one another. this doesn't make them feel respectful towards another, though. the word respect is thrown around a lot when it shouldn't be...).
And also, men being attracted to ladies, and wanting to do very "nasty" things to/with them, is one of the most animalistic things that exists, and there is nothing that guys are really able to do to overcome this (unless they have a big ego). It's perfectly natural, and sometimes people are simply unable to ignore their animalistic instincts that were the survival of the species so many many many years ago.
So yes, I do believe that it is okay for guys to think things about girls (And vice versa, if that goes on. As a 15 year old male, I wouldn't really know...).
2006-08-29 19:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by mattomynameo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of being okay. It is a two way street and the "good" guys and girls get embarassed when they later think about it. It's a personal thing and not to be considered. What people do is the proof in the pudding that they are either jerks or not jerks.
2006-08-29 19:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think guys should talk nasty like oh she's a B****,and a Hoe and stuff like that,or if a guy doesn't know u they shouldn't like make a nasty comment to u while ur walking down the street.if they wanna talk too u then they can say something sweet or polite instead of being nasty and always having they're minds in the gutter........but if ur with a guy and they say something like freaky too u then i think thats ok if u guys r intimate.........i hope my advise helps
2006-08-29 19:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by ~>i cant hate u anymore<~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters whether it's okay or not for them to think about nasty stuff about girls because they'll do it anyway. What's important is that nasty thoughts do not get translated into action. Everyone gets nasty thoughts once in a while and by "nasty", I mean lewd thoughts. Perverse and violent thoughts excepted.
2006-08-29 18:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, girls should be given respect and seen as more then just a sex toy. Sometimes you can't help it but you train your mind not to think that way. To these people who say its natural, its only natural because everyone is telling each other its ok, in other cultures men don't view their women the same way, so obviously its not natural.
2006-08-29 19:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by college_kid491 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by NASTY? And why is it nasty? Like I think about seeing a girl naked or kissing her or doing sexual stuff with her. What's wrong with that? I don't think that's nasty, to me it seems like it would be a lot of fun... for her too. Heck, I'm not selfish. I'm a giver and a receiver!
2006-08-29 19:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by goof 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on what the nasty stuff is. I mean if it is sexy things that they want to do with us that is one thing. But other than that NO. We need to be treated with respect and taken care of.
2006-08-29 19:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lyndzey Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you can not tell someone what to think and what not to think. I am not sure what your definition of "nasty" is but if it jsut pertains to sexual thoughts... They are totally natural and there is no way aroudn them... What you do about these thoughts is what counts. IF you try to act them out or live in these thoughts it can be a real problem....
2006-08-29 19:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by htchrist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's ok.But I have the feeling that just about all men do think nasty thoughts
about women.If not nasty thoughts they are definately thinking about other women but as long as they don't ever act on it or if they happen to be single then I think it would be ok.
2006-08-29 18:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what kind of nasty stuff? i mean, if theyre just THINKING it, theres not a lot you can do to stop them, but yeah i'd be a little creeped out if i found out that some random stranger had dirty fantasies of like, peeing on me or something
if its a normal sexual fantasy (and 'Normal' depends on who youre talking to,really) then i dont see a problem with it. its natural
2006-08-29 19:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by MRose 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋