First of all, I want to tell you that even though this may look horrible on your end at the moment,--You CAN get justice!!!
You absolutely need to proceed very carefully though.
If you were arrested for battery or domestic violence, you will have a "No contact" order which forbids you from doing anything harmful or vindictive against her. Having her arrested (even if you have proof) is vindictive. You will though be able to press charges after you are cleared, and also this evidence will help you in court.
My Son had the exact same thing happen to him, and it took ALOT of time and tears, but we did get the case thrown out, and we then went after his accuser. She had stolen his checkbook, and done similar acts as your accuser.
Whatever you do, if you are innocent,--never, ever settle, or accept a plea agreement!! The State Attorney threatened my Son with additional charges, and even prison, but he stood his ground, and you should too.
Good Luck Sweetie!!
2006-08-29 19:01:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Well I would just make sure you have your lawyer subpoena those witnesses since you will be fighting that charge in court. If what you say is true, you will win.
As for the girlfriend stealing money out of your account, thats a little more tricky. I'm sure the police told you something which is why you attempted ( to me meaning they wouldn't take the report) because she is your girlfriend. If you ever let her use your card before, whether or not her name is on the account, and she has been given your password before, is more of a civil situation, and would be extremely hard to prove in court. It's not ike you dont know her, and she did that because that is a felony, and it's more black and white for the DA.
Filing a complaint with Internal Affairs.
All you should have to do, is go down to the department, and complete a formal complaint form, which you then submit to a desk officer. Depending on if there is an IA officer present at the station, you could speak with them or, they could just transfer your call, and have you speak directly with someone.
Hoped this helped.
2006-08-29 18:54:06
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answered by JAG 2
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Stay far away from all that mess,leave town,if able to after court date?? I know it sounds weak,but it is not.You need to get away from all that ......do not try and get her in trouble if it was not much money.Do you really want to spend the rest of your life in courts and jail and lawyers and,etc??Start fresh..you deserve it,and she will get her just rewards",In time",not your time...
(But do get your own lawyer ,for {{your}} case)
2006-08-29 18:48:35
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answered by ? 5
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dont waste your time on yahoo answers!
go find a good lawyer. ask around, friends and family for a good name, and call them. they'll give you better info then anyone on here. because he'll know your case, and will have to research her case.
2006-08-29 18:43:47
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answered by MRose 4
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damn thats some serious business... Yahoo search (or google) what you need to know and keep persuing it dont take time off or people will be less likely to believe you.
2006-08-29 18:44:10
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answered by ragingravira16 2
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Get an attorney! they "will" listen to him!
Clear your name and then take the bad guys to court!!.
2006-08-29 18:43:52
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answered by ? 6
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try to get a lawyer they would try to help sorry to hear that
2006-08-29 18:43:35
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answered by cutiepie ashley 2
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i dont know....
2006-08-29 18:43:54
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answered by Sweety 1
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