Okay,there's this guy at church and he's always looking at me. I'm always looking at him too and I don't think he's staring at me cuz he thinks I'm weird. I really think he likes me and I really like him the only problem is that he's about 3 or 4 years older than me. Do you think I should make the first move and if so how or should I wait for him to make the first move?
2006-08-29 18:19:56 · 17 answers · asked by shy_may_be 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think I should take it slo and just start by smiling at him and if he smiles back does it mean he likes me?
2006-08-29 18:41:39 · update #1
It will be a great fun later in your life ,if you go to him and itroduce your self & say something about the church or ask his openion about the present set up etc etc , to just start opening a conversation .I am confident and sure that shy young man will be overjoyed and will love you for ever , more than himself . Good luck .
2006-08-29 18:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait for him to make the first move. Because you dont know why he is looking at you. Why dont you go up to him and say hi. Break the ice a little. You should be able to tell from there! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 01:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three to four years older isn't bad as long as you're over 18. If it seems like he's shy you could make the first move by starting conversation with him.
2006-08-30 01:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by SS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to make the first move. If a guy really likes you he won't wait for you to make the first move. If he keeps looking at you and yet no action then I don't think that he thinks that you're worth his time. And if he does like you and is waiting for you to make the first move....then sweetie, go find yourself a MAN that can handle you. He's obviously not interested or he's not man enough. Let him make the move.
2006-08-30 01:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sanne 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sort of get into the whole staring thing even if it sounds weird. Act normal, and at the corner of your eye see if he's constantly staring. If he does than he likes you. Just try talking to him as a friend then get to know him.
2006-08-30 01:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you could start by giving a smile once in a while...then if he still doesnt take the lead, start by polite conversation...
abt the age factor..3-4 yrs diff aint that great as long as you r nt tooo young..
all the best
2006-08-30 01:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by v v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with a smile and also observe his response very closely.
If he tries to catch up you in 4 or 5 visits then he is greedy for sex only.If he shows patients then he is a real lover
2006-08-30 05:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is 2006 woman are making the first .move an age is just a number.it seen like u like what u see .an so do he speak to him. that u motivated .i think u both are shy.
2006-08-30 01:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by frances h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 or 4 years, makes no difference at all, unless your 10 and he is 14
2006-08-30 01:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would wait for him to make the first move.
2006-08-30 10:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jessicer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋