I am more and more convinced that love doesn't exist. does he not REAL love his girlfriend??This guy I had a HUGE crush on when I was in my early teens left for Europe 5 years ago. I really liked him but he always said that he saw me as "a little sister" (he's 5 years my senior). And he came back almost every year after he left. And every year I noticed that his behavior towards me changed. He wanted to spend more time with me etc. I have to admit that I was flattered and that the 15 y .o. girl inside me really liked the attention and wanted something to happen between us (not necessarily sex). He is now 27 and has a 2 y.o. daughter and he is living together with the mother. And he still went out of his way, drove for an hour just to see me and asked around until one of my cousins gave him the number. And we kissed. I had to fulfill the wish of the 15 y.o. inside me. Now he tells me that it has been a while since he felt this way about someone. Pf! Is it me or is this total BS
2006-08-29 18:13:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sanne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I realize you have feelings for this person, but trust me......RUN NOW!!!! you will find love soon I promise if you just wait a little while
2006-08-29 18:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by daler030 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bull Sh*t.
Why is he living with the baby momma? If he liked you, he would not be with her.
Don't make the same mistake that I did. I slept with a guy like a day after his baby was born. That is bad. I guess I really did not care because my sister had just been cheated. I thought if there were girls that did it with a man who had a gf then why can't I! But no...that's wrong. What if the other girl was me? But then I don't feel bad because he is such a flirt. Like I swear. I like his personality though even if he is a hypocrite.
But anyways, all he wants from you is SEX. Stop talking to him before it is too late.
Don't make the same mistake I did.
Good Luck.
2006-08-30 01:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your confusion. He obviously has strong feelings for you, which he has been repressing for years (little sister indeed!). He recognizes too (how could he not?) that these feelings are reciprocated. It is difficult to believe that these feelings of his are not genuine, as opposed to "BS".
Your difficulty, I suppose, is reconciling these feelings with his living arrangements. You know this situation better than I ... is he in love with the mother of his child? Does he express these feelings to you? He may be where he is for any number of reasons, not all of them predicated on his feelings for the mother. I would suggest to you that what he is telling you is true. This, then, answers your question. What you choose to do about it is another matter all together.
2006-08-30 01:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is tough, I have to admit.. I've been in that situation and coming to the point of just wanting to separate them but in my situation there was no child just girlfriend. But what I did to over come the feeling of crush was I began to distant myself away from him. I kept myself occupied I did everything I can to forget about him especially in your situation, I would rather have you try to distant yourself from him and to also try to keep yourself occupied.
Take care girl, I know its really hard... I wish this helps you.
2006-08-30 03:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to cheat on his girlfriend. You have fulfilled your 15 y.o. fantasy. Now, tell him you just see him as a "big brother".
2006-08-30 01:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no girl there is always somebody out there 4 you but this guy proplyliked you when you where 15 and now girl he loves you he proply loved you back then but you were to young 4 him but that last statement you made h#ll ya he was b.s.n you no before he came back he was f#ckin
2006-08-30 01:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by nadine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MAY HAVE FULFILL YOUR DREAM OF A 15 YEARS BUT
REALITY IS THAT HE HAS SOMEONE THAT HE WIITH AND
AN CHILD. AND THE FACT THAT HE KISSED YOU REALLY
DOES NOT SAY MUCH ABOUT HIM. SO I WOULD STAY
CLEAR OF THIS IT MAY BE A PROBLEM DOWN THE ROAD.
2006-08-30 01:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has always felt this way and finnally got the nerv to do but he got his self trapped now and wants u to be the escape,dont let him make u the other woman,once a cheater always a cheater,and wats ure situation?
2006-08-30 01:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by jeh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love does exist... it just has to be mutual for it to exist.. and last.
2006-08-30 01:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask yourself, "What would Jesus do?" and he will give you the answer. Honey, Jesus be knowin it. He fo real. Just ask him.
2006-08-30 01:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Holy Rollin Mama 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋