2006-08-29 18:01:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant rid yourself of guilt .. it is there for a reason.
What you can do is be strong enough to walk away from the cause of the guilt .. be proud of the courage to do that and the guilt will lessen in terms of pain in time .. it will be good to keep it as it will hopefully prevent you from finding yourself in the same situation again.
2006-08-29 20:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a partner, don't offload your guilt by telling them - that will only make things worse - unless you intend leaving. Guilt is meant to be an alarm bell to tell us that we're going against our values. When it rings, we're supposed to shape up and do the right thing ( stop the activity), not tape the alarm bell to our ear and listen to it for the rest of our lives, so that it stops us moving on and growing. The best antidote for guilt is get back in line with your own beliefs about right and wrong, take personal responsibility and move on.
2006-08-30 01:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To rid yourself of any kind of guilt you must assume the responsibility for your actions. That means we all have to fess up and be responsible for everything we do while we are here from stepping on an ant to killing another human being and every thing in between
2006-08-30 01:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not a lot you can do to get rid of the guilt; walk away from this situation though unless you want it to get a whole lot worse.
2006-08-30 01:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ethereal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting involved with a married man is a thrill nut be careful of the backlash. I've seen so many of my girl Friends going out with married men ang invariablty, it ends in tears. i suppose he's already told you he'll leave his wife: don't believe a word of it
2006-08-30 01:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did'ent say if you are single,but if you are, it's him that should feel the guilt he's the one thats married not you.But most married men never leave their wives,so dont't bank on it, even if he say's he will.So stop feeling guilty it's his problem not your's,if it was'ent you he would cheat with someone else anyway.Just make sure you don't get hurt.t.c.
2006-08-30 02:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by michelle f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the married man....
2006-08-30 01:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by faithfulbibleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand why people are telling you to tell the wife that's nasty what did she do?? As for your guilt, we all do daft things, for all you know his wife might know and cant face it. forgive yourself, and get on with life with or without him you know he is married the balls in your court if he lied to you kick his **** if he was honest why are you feeling guilty{did you take the vows}?
2006-08-30 03:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by hazilbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the relationship. I had an affair and left my wife for her, we had a couple of good years together then she dumped me. what a waste, a lot of people got hurt both financially and emotionally for nothing.
2006-08-30 02:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Tony P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife and get rid of the man and move on.Been there gust have your fun.
2006-08-30 01:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋